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Candidates for RNC Chair Oppose Marriage Equality

Monday, December 27th, 2010

Some of the leading candidates vying to replace Republican National Committee (RNC) Chairman Michael Steele oppose gay marriage. The candidates discussed their views on the subject with National Organization for Marriage (NOM) Chairwoman Maggie Gallagher.

NOM is the nation’s most vociferous opponent of gay marriage. The group backed successful efforts to repeal gay marriage in California and Maine. Its next targets appear to be New Hampshire and Iowa, where Republican lawmakers increased their numbers on November 2.

Gallagher discussed the issue with several leading candidates, including Wisconsin GOP Chairman Reince Priebus, Save American Jobs Project Chairman Saul Anuzis, former RNC political director Gentry Collins and former Missouri Republican Chairwoman Ann Wagner.

Full Story from On Top Magazine

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ME: Governor Baldacci Had Change of Heart On Gay Marriage

Monday, December 27th, 2010

When gay activists announced their intention to pursue full marriage equality for gay and lesbian couples, they didn’t know whether Gov. John Baldacci would support them. They knew they had a Democratic Legislature that was likely to pass the bill. They had momentum in other New England states.

But they didn’t know if Baldacci — a Democrat and Roman Catholic who had already expressed support for the lesser standing of civil unions — would go along.

Would he veto it? Would he quietly let it be known he wasn’t supportive? Would he withhold support unless it was sent to voters for approval? His early comments, made in January 2009 after a news conference to announce the bill, were noncommittal.

Full Story from the Portland Press Herald

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WY: GOP Plans to Send Gay Marriage Ban to Voters

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

At least two Republican state lawmakers plan to co-sponsor a resolution on the definition of marriage.

State law defines marriage as a legal union between a man and woman, but Wyoming also recognizes marriages performed in other states. Rep. Owen Petersen of Mountain View says that raises questions about what happens when gay couples from other states move to Wyoming.

Petersen and Sen. Curt Meier of LaGrange say they plan to co-sponsor a resolution that would let voters decide whether to amend the state constitution to clarify.

Full Story from KULR8

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Ireland: Couples Plan to Register Partnerships; Marriage Equality Lawsuit Looms

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

DOZENS OF same-sex couples are making plans to apply to register their civil partnerships in the new year following the coming into force of the Civil Partnership Act. Minister for Justice Dermot Ahern has signed the commencement order allowing the law to come into force on January 1st.

The Act provides for the legal recognition of same-sex relationships and for granting certain protections to cohabiting couples when they break up through separation or death. It provides for similar rights for same-sex as for married couples in relation to property, social welfare, succession, maintenance, pensions and tax. It also provides for the dissolution of such partnerships.

Also next year, the Supreme Court will consider an appeal seeking to establish the right of a lesbian couple to marry. In 2006, Katherine Zappone and Ann-Louise Gilligan brought an unsuccessful High Court action seeking to have their Canadian marriage recognised in Ireland. They appealed the ruling to the Supreme Court, but the appeal has yet to be heard.

Full Story from The Irish Times

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Featured Gay Friendly Wedding Vendor: Ceremonies From The Heart, Boston, MA

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

Periodically we’ll feature one of our vendors here to let our readers know about some great people who can help you plan the perfect wedding.

Gay Friendly Massachusetts Wedding Vendors

Ceremonies From The HeartLisaAnn Donegan is honored to help gay and lesbian couples celebrate their love and commitment to one another. She feels fortunate to live in Massachusetts, so far the only state in the US where gay marriage is legal and recognized on a par with straight marriage. She believes that everyone has the fundamental right to the benefits, love, and responsibilities of marriage.

She will do more than just help you write your vows to each other and choose the best readings. She can also help you design a ceremony that’s meaningful, warm and uniquely you. Your ceremony should reflect what makes the two of you unique, your desires for the future, and the importance of your friends and family in your lives.

She can help you plan a beautifully simple civil ceremony, or a deeply meaningful religious event which can incorporate your own faith and rituals. She regularly works with couples of particular faiths, non-denominational couples, and couples who are not religious at all.

See April’s Expanded Listing on Purple Unions Here

DADT Repeal Will Not Include Spousal Benefits for Gay Soldiers

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

Don't Ask Don't Tell Repeal“The partners of gay service members will not at this point be given any special rights or any rights that parallel those of a spouse.”

Bernard Rostker, described by NPR as the former Undersecretary of the Department of Defense for Personnel and Readiness, and someone who’s been studying Don’t Ask Don’t Tell for 17 years.

Here, Rostker responds to a question about whether the spouses of lesbian and gay servicemembers will receive benefits. Now that DADT is officially on the way out, his opinion of pending Pentagon policy is that the military will not recognize gay partners for marriage benefits. Unmarried heterosexuals do not receive military benefits either, it is reported.

Full Story from Metro Weekly

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Argentina: Gay Wedding Business Booming

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

Argentina Gay WeddingsFor more than 25 years Arturo Lodetti dreamt of walking down the aisle with the love of his life. Now finally, with his wedding only a few months away, he is planning to make it the biggest, most fabulous party that Buenos Aires has ever seen.

“I never thought I’d see the day when I would be able to make Hector my husband,” he says, selecting a huge yellow headdress from a selection of sequins and feathers in a fancy dress shop. “I just want it to be like a carnival, the most enormous celebration of our love, our marriage and the years we have spent fighting for this day to even happen.”

Five months ago Argentina became the first country in Latin America, and one of only a handful of nations in the world, to legalise same-sex marriage. Since then the country has seen hundreds of gay couples saying “I do” and the birth of a booming new economy catering for the increasingly lucrative gay wedding market. For many people, business has never been better.

Full Story from the Guardian

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RI: NOM Pushes Biased Poll to Try to Force Marriage Equality Vote

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

The question of whether same-sex marriage should be legal in Rhode Island could be answered in the coming year. There’s growing support in the General Assembly to passing it and Governor-elect Lincoln Chafee has vowed to support it.

One group opposed to gay marriage, the National Organization for Marriage — Rhode Island (NOM-RI), however, has been advocating for a binding referendum on the matter instead of a legislative vote, arguing that polls prove the people want the right to make the decision.

The only question released by NOM-RI in its August 2010 poll, which also shows strong support for letting the people decide, asked likely voters whether they agreed or disagreed with this statement: “The people of Rhode Island themselves should decide the question of marriage, not judges or backroom politicians.”

The reference to “backroom politicians” (as opposed to “frontroom politicians”?) “is clearly a negative cue in the question. That’s clearly designed to elicit a particular response,” said James Henson, co-director, University of Texas / Texas Tribune Poll.

Full Story from Politifact

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Australia: Churches Receiving Public Money Can Ban Gay Foster Parents, Ruling Says

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

CHURCH groups are free to discriminate against homosexuals after a landmark judgment in which a tribunal ruled religious charities are allowed to ban gay foster parents.

The ruling, made in the NSW Administrative Decisions Tribunal, has been hailed by the Catholic Church but has outraged civil libertarians, who are demanding religions no longer be exempt from anti-discrimination laws if they receive public money, reported The Daily Telegraph.

The Council of Civil Liberties suggested more children might end up in orphanages because church-based service providers could now knock back couples who did not conform to their beliefs.

Full Story from the Herald Sun

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Renew America Demeans Service of All Soldiers, Gay & Straight

Friday, December 24th, 2010

Don't Ask Don't Tell RepealHey all,

Just ran across this lovely column on the Renew America site (yes, I know – I had to shower afterward). Did you know wthat the religious right hates gays so much they’ve now stooped to demeaning even straight soldiers in their lust to go after the DADT repeal? Here are a few choice segments from this odious column:

According to Nartional Review Online, there may be a whole lot of homosexuals who just got an unpleasant surprise. With the repeal of the law prohibiting homosexual service in the United States military, they just lost their “get out of jail free” card.

According to the Pentagon, “approximately 85% of discharges for homosexual conduct have been made on the basis of statements by the Service member.”

And even more distressing for our would-be limp-wristed enlistees, the Pentagon adds helpfully that “approximately one quarter of these discharges have occurred in the first four months of a Service member’s service.”

Notice that there’s no link to this supposed Pentagon study, and no mention of whether these soldiers who all outed themselves did so out of disgust with having to lie, or if outing themselves means having an email found on their hard drive that indicated they are gay, or…?  Nope, all black and white, trust us, move along, nothing else to see here.

But it gets worse:

In other words, homosexuals – or people who suddenly discovered latent homosexual tendencies when they could use it to parachute out of the military – signed up for the all-volunteer army, got a few weeks into basic and said, forget this noise. I’m outtahere. All they had to do was admit they were gay – whether they were or not – and they got their walking papers along with an honorable discharge.

Well, all that’s gone now, both for gays and straights willing to tell odious lies about themselves. If a homosexual signs up now, he’s stuck with the whole magilla. Go to your superior officer now and say, hey, I’m a flaming homosexual, I hate the army, let me out of here, the superior officer will say, tough darts, those days are gone. You’re stuck with us now, Nancy-boy.

So not only are our limp-wristed nancy boy gay soldiers getting out of jail free (oh, and extra points for working in so many lovely offensive phrases), but our straight soldiers are all a bunch of liars and cheats too.

It’s instructive to see just how fast the Right will throw you under the bus if they think it will advance their own agenda.

Those days are now shortly to be a distant memory for our homosexual friends. They enlist, they’re stuck with the whole program just like everybody else.

In other words, they had preferential treatment and special privileges, a status and privileges and an exit strategy denied to their honest and straight counterparts. And homosexuals just bargained it away. Now, they will discover to their dismay, they’re back to having equal rights instead of special rights.

So you see, you gay and lesbian soldiers had it all backwards.  You were actually receiving special rights and protections that no one else got when Don’t Ask Don’t Tell was in effect, which was just fine with the Religious Right, because you know how they love special rights for gays.  Now you’ve gone and blown it all away.

I know it’s Christmastime, and we’re all supposed to love our neighbors.  OK, I’ll take a page from the Christian Right – I love you guys enough to tell you that I think anyone who has so much misdirected hatred in their hearts is pathetic, and would probably sell his own mother for political advantage – certainly our troops aren’t immune to your venom.

Unlike you, our brave men and women actually want to serve this country, not split it down the middle.  We’re proud of all of our soldiers, straight and gay.

Oh, and Happy Holidays!

–Scott, Gay Marriage Watch