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Marriage Equality Debate Helps Revive Lesbian Art Scene

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Lesbian ArtOn July 23, 1946, just before her diagnosis of stomach cancer and the surgery that ended her life, Gertrude Stein wrote her will. She left what little money she had and her priceless collection of paintings to her lover of decades, Alice B. Toklas.

Though acquired for a pittance at the turn of the century, Stein’s modernist collection had become valuable — the loaning out of it alone should have supported Toklas. But the late writer’s relatives wanted the art — all of it. While Toklas was away at a spa in Italy in 1961, they took the precious works, leaving her penniless and alone to stare at the outlines on the walls.

New York artist Hilary Harkness read about Toklas’ misfortune in a series of New Yorker articles by veteran reporter Janet Malcolm. They roiled her; the unequivocal — and often unabashed — painter had been undergoing her own spousal dilemma and she took to the studio once again. Out of both emotion and action, came her latest series: “New Paintings,” opening this week at the renowned Mary Boone gallery.

Full Story from The Huffington Post

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TN: “Don’t Say Gay” Bill Too Late for House Passage This Year

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

A bill that seeks to outlaw the discussion of sexual minorities in Tennessee’s public schools before the ninth grade won’t get a hearing this year in the House.

Republican Senator Stacey Campfield’s bill cleared a Senate committee last week and is scheduled for a Senate floor vote on Thursday.

But the bill’s House sponsor, Representative Bill Dunn, has said there isn’t sufficient time left in this year’s session to pursue passage in the House.

Full Story from On Top Magazine

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New York Times: A Tipping Point for Gay Marriage?

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

New York Marriage EqualityIt’s not every day that a leading law firm fires a client for holding a position so extreme that it may be said to be unworthy of a defense. And it is rarer yet — unheard of, really — when that client is the House of Representatives and the position in question is a federal law.

1967 Interracial Marriage: A Virginia ban is ruled unconstitutional.
Yet that is just what King & Spalding, a venerable Atlanta firm, did last week. Under pressure from gay rights groups and apparently fearful of criticism from the law students it recruits and the corporate clients it serves, the firm said it would not defend the federal Defense of Marriage Act against a challenge that it violates the Constitution.

The episode has so far mostly been discussed as a matter of legal ethics, and the firm has had a rough ride. But there is something larger going on, too.

Full Story from the NY Times

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Call to Action: Call Your New York Senator About Marriage Equality

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

New York Marriage EqualityJust got this from our friend Jonathan in New York:

Dear Friends

As you are likely to know, the fight for Marriage Equality in NY state is down to the wire again this year. We have reason to hope we could push this over the line this year, and I am inspired by the amazing work grassroots organizers have done this year to gain those critical NY state Senate votes.

They have sat through endless community meetings, met with numerous senators, taken off work frequently to go to Albany and have even been spat as they try to explain why being granted full equality is important to LGBT people.

For now, lobbyists believe we stand at 26 Senators in favor, maybe 28. We still need 32.

So I ask you to take 90 second out of your day to do something that could really help get those extra 4 votes.

NY voters may go to www.nysenate.gov website, enter your address, find your state senator and you can then send a quick and easy email (or make a 30 second call to his or her office to voice your support).

These calls and voicemails are being recorded, tabulated, and sent to Albany each day to show support for marriage equality. Organizers are using these statistics in each meeting to demonstrate to each Senator that the issue is important to their constituents.

All you need to say or type is “I support Marriage Equality and urge you to vote for the Marriage Equality bill.” (You might have to click to allow pop ups if you go the email route, and will also have to scroll down to type in random words as part of their spam prevention measures).

Make that call even if your senator (like mine in Chelsea -Tom Duane ) is supportive by asking them to do what they can to gain their colleagues’ support across the fence and reminding them how important this is for us.

And lastly, please pass this on to your friends to do that as well!!!! Especially if you know people who live in target districts like Kew Gardens Queens, SI, or Long Island.

Thanks

Jonathan

Featured Gay Friendly Wedding Vendor: Lois Huncovsky, San Diego

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Periodically we’ll feature one of our vendors here to let our readers know about some great people who can help you plan the perfect wedding.

Gay Friendly San DiegoWedding Vendors

Reverend Lois Huncovsky, San DiegoAre you looking for someone to officiate at your San Diego gay wedding? I’ll be there for you as you bring your expression of promise and commitment to one other and to society. Your wedding vows are the essence, the heart and soul of your ceremony.

I have been officiating at weddings since 1987, and have been affiliated with many faiths and traditions. The one thing I’ve learned is that the foundation of all spiritual and religious teachings is love. It’s my goal to bring my experience, love, warmth and caring to every event.

I cherish the love between two souls, and believe that if your love is strong and enduring, then it will make the high ideals of all teachings easier to express.

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Marriage Equality Events Today/Tomorrow: Limerick Ireland, Palm Springs, San Diego, DC, Boston, Livonia MI, Bronx, Rochester NY, Staten Is, Canton OH, Philadelphia, Providence

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Gay Marriage Events April 30th-31st, 2011Here’s our list of events today and tomorrow around the world relating to marriage equality, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, and other LGBT equality issues. If you know of any other events – rallies, meetings, phonebanking, etc – please use the link below to add your event to our list!

–Ireland, Limerick: 05/01, Going the Distance for Marriage Equality.
–USA, CA, Palm Springs: 04/30, Equality Happy Hour, Hamburger Mary’s, 4-7 PM.
–USA, CA, San Diego: 04/30, San Diego Equality Awards 2011 – $150, Hall of Champions, 6-11 PM.
–USA, DC, Washington: 04/30, GLAA 40th Anniversary Celebration – $50, Washington Plaza Hotel, 6:30-9 PM.
–USA, MA, Boston: 04/30, Phone Bank for RI Marriage Equality, Mass Equality Offices, 11 AM-4 PM.
–USA, MI, LIvonia: 05/01, Gay Wedding Show, Detroit Marriott Livonia, 3-8 PM.
–USA, NY, Bronx: 04/30, Post Carding & Stop & Dials Action – MENY, Middle Village Metro Mall, 12-4 PM.
–USA, NY, Rochester: 04/30, Collect Signatures with MENY, Public Market, 7:30 AM-2 PM.
–USA, NY, Rochester: 05/01, Collect Signatures with MENY, Calvar St. Andrews Church, 11 AM-12:30 PM.
–USA, NY, Staten Island: 04/30, Post Carding & Stop & Dials Action – MENY, Page Ave Top Tomato SC, 11:45 AM-4 PM.
–USA, OH, Canton: 04/30, NE Ohio Lobby Day Training, TBD, TBD.
–USA, PA, Philadelphia: 04/25-05/01, Equality Forum 2011.
–USA, RI, Providence: 04/30, Canvass For Marriage Equality, MERI HQ, 10 AM.
–USA, RI, Providence: 05/01, Providence Calling For Equality, MERI HQ, 1 PM.

Full Events List/Add Your Own Event: http://www.purpleunions.com/mn/gay-marriage-events-list.html

CT: Town Halls Specialize in Quick Gay Weddings

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Connecticut Gay WeddingsNot all marriages are announced with wedding bells. For some couples, it’s as silent as a few signatures between themselves, a justice of the peace and a town clerk. Who needs bells and whistles when you have love?

While all types of people go for quick, two-day or same-day marriages, it’s undeniable that since 2008, when Connecticut legalized same sex matrimony, local towns have seen an influx of gay couples looking for a quick tie of the knot in town hall. Town clerks issue the marriage licenses, but do not perform the ceremony. That task is left to a justice of the peace.

“I marry three types of couples,” said Mary Pugh, a Norwalk-based CT Justice of the Peace. “People who get a big fancy mansion and have a wedding, people who have been together for a million years and just want to get married, and the third group is people from out of state.”

Full Story from Patch.com

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Obama Administration Asks Court to Reject Appeal for Immediate End to DADT

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

Don't Ask Don't Tell RepealThe Obama administration wants a federal appeals court to maintain the ban on openly gay service members until the Pentagon is ready for them, probably by the end of the year, and to reject a demand for an immediate halt to “don’t ask, don’t tell.”

In a filing late Thursday, the Justice Department asked the Ninth U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in San Francisco to suspend legal proceedings while the government implements a federal law repealing “don’t ask, don’t tell,” the 1993 statute barring military service by gays and lesbians who disclose their sexual orientation.

President Obama signed the repeal in December. It takes effect 60 days after he and the Pentagon certify that it will not interfere with military effectiveness or recruiting.

Full Story from SFGate

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Gay Couple Gets Married in Every State Where It’s Legal

Friday, April 29th, 2011

Gay Couple Marries Across USPAT DWYER and Stephen Mosher bounded out of a beat-up blue van on Tuesday afternoon and set up a white barstool on the sidewalk in front of the United States Supreme Court. It was 25 years to the day since they had become a couple, and several dozen friends and relatives had come to the capital to celebrate. Mr. Dwyer and Mr. Mosher were getting married.

Again.

They had said “I do” before, not once, not twice, but six times. The District of Columbia made seven. In a slightly zany, low-budget cross-country adventure, Mr. Dwyer, who at 48 is trying to remake himself as an actor, and Mr. Mosher, 46, an events planner, traveled from their Manhattan home to exchange wedding vows and rings in every state and jurisdiction that allows same-sex marriage — and one, California, that did and now does not.

They eloped to Connecticut, joined by two friends who kept their secret with a “pinky swear.” They then professed their love on a Vermont farm, on a covered bridge in New Hampshire, inside the living room of a Massachusetts home. They stood under a Jewish wedding canopy and stomped on a glass in Iowa. (Neither is Jewish.) They donned brass rings on their middle fingers — a not-too-subtle protest against California’s Proposition 8, the voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage — in a yoga studio there while the ban was in place. Mr. Dwyer called it an “act of civil disobedience.”

Full Story from the NY Times

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RI: Now That Marriage is Off The Table, Catholic Bishops Go After Civil Unions Bill

Friday, April 29th, 2011

Rhode Island Civil UnionsIf you go for marriage equality, they say that they want civil unions. If you go for civil unions, they say no way over my dead body. Welcome to the wonderful world of the homophobic bigots out there who would rather see homosexuality returned to the days when stays in the asylum were considered ‘treatment’, and people were driven to kill themselves over the fact that they were being forced to be straight.

Today, in an unsigned editorial in this week’s Rhode Island Catholic, the Catholic Diocese of Providence wants the civil unions bill killed.

They wrote, via the Providence Journal: “We hope that those members of the Rhode Island General Assembly who have consistently supported traditional marriage will stay steadfast in their opposition to the legal recognition of same-sex relationships as either marriage or civil unions.

Full Story from Lez Get Real

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