Australia: Rudd’s About-Face on Marriage Equality Puts Pressure on Gillard, Other Holdouts

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

SydneyJust got this from Australian Marriage Equality.

Marriage equality advocates have predicted other MPs will come out in support of marriage equality in the wake of former Prime Minister, Kevin Rudd’s change of heart on the issue.

Australian Marriage Equality national convener, Rodney Croome, said, “Kevin Rudd is an immensely influential figure who will inspire others to support marriage equality both in parliament and across the community.”

“As one of Australia’s most prominent Christians, Mr Rudd’s message to other people of faith is that they can support marriage equality not despite their faith but because of it.”

“Already former Labor minister, Joel Fitzgibbon, has said he is open to changing his mind on the issue and I expect other MPs will follow.” (Channel 7, Sunrise program, 21.5.13)

“If Mr Rudd can evolve on marriage equality so can Julia Gillard and Tony Abbott.”

Mr Croome went on to say that Mr Rudd’s decision to support marriage equality following the revelation that one of his former staffers is a gay Christian shows that those affected by reform telling their personal stories is the key to change.

“Mr Rudd’s change of heart is a reminder that marriage equality is a deeply personal issue about love, family and faith, and it is from this level that change will ultimately come.”

“I urge all supporters of marriage equality to keep telling their personal stories about why marriage equality matters.”

Green MP, Adam Bandt, has proposed a vote on his marriage equality bill on June 6th, providing Mr Rudd and others with an opportunity to vote for reform.

 

Matt Baume’s Marriage News Watch 5/20/13

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

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Minnesota passes a marriage bill, bringing the total to twelve states with the freedom to marry. Can we make it thirteen? Time’s running out for Illinois to pass its marriage bill this year. And even with public support for marriage soaring, numerous states may be stuck with marriage bans for years to come.

Authored By Matt Baume – See the Full Story at AFER

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Marriage Equality / LGBT Rights Updates 5/20/13

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

Gay Wedding - HandsA smattering of marriage equality and LGBT rights stories to share with you tonight.

TEXAS LESBIAN COUPLE WILL SPLIT AT JUDGE’S ORDER

A lesbian couple will no longer live together after a judge ordered it as a condition of a divorce settlement. The Dallas Voice reports:

Attorneys for Compton and Price issued a statement Monday saying the couple plans to comply with the order even though it is an unconstitutional violation of their right to privacy under case law including Lawrence v. Texas. The attorneys also requested that unlike Roach, the press respect the couple’s privacy since the case involves children.

PRESIDENT OBAMA MENTIONS GAY FAMILIES AT COMMENCEMENT SPEECH

An unexpected mention from President Obama at a commencement speech. Towleroad.com reports:

The crowd at the Morehouse College commencement ceremony over the weekend seemed momentarily stunned when Obama directed the gay men in the audience to be the best husband to their partners, but Obama held up one finger and stifled any dissent: “And that’s what I’m asking all of you to do: Keep setting an example for what it means to be a man. Be the best husband to your wife, or your boyfriend, or your partner. Be the best father you can be to your children. Because nothing is more important.”

ANTI GAY MOB AT GEORGIA PRIDE WAS LED BY PRIESTS

No big surprise here – a mob that disrupted a gay pride march in Georgia was led by a group of priests. AmericaBlog reports:

The NYT reports that Georgian Orthodox priests helped lead the mob of 20,000 people that violently attacked a small group of gay rights protesters in the capital of Tbilisi on Friday. What’s worse, a bishop in the church, Iakob Iakobashvili, who helped organize the counter-protests, refused to condemn the violence by his own priests.

CHURCH OF SCOTLAND WILL ALLOW MINISTERS IN SAME-SEX RELATIONSHIPS

The Church of Scotland decided to allow ordination of openly gay ministers. Pink News reports:

The General Assembly of the Church of Scotland has passed a motion to allow the ordination and appointment of ministers in same-sex relationships. On Monday evening Assembly commissioners voted in favour of a proposal that allows liberal parishes to opt out of the church’s policy on homosexuality. The move has been welcomed by Scotland’s Equality Network, who say it is a positive step forward for a more equal society. However, General Assembly rules dictate it must be approved at a presbytery level and then rubber-stamped at next year’s gathering.

CHINA “GROUPON” TYPE SITE OFFERS GAY SUBSCRIBERS TRIP TO CANADA TO MARRY

A Chinese version of the site Groupon is giving away a gay wedding – in Canada – to one lucky couple. Gay Star News reports:

Meituan, a Chinese version of Groupon, the group deals website, is offering gay couples the chance to marry in Canada for free. ‘On 20 and 21 May, Meituan Rainbow Day, we support comrades [slang for gay people],’ the deal site says, ‘because we believe that marriage is not about similarities or differences, it’s about true love, regardless of gender’. Over 120,000 people have already registered to win the prize, which includes travel from China to Canada, one night’s accommodation and marriage registration fee.

NEW YORK SENATORS PUT PRESSURE ON TO PASS TRANSGENDER PROTECTIONS BILL

Now that marriage equality is a done deal in NYC, the push is on to pass a transgender protections bill. Queerty reports:

Now, the state’s two U.S. Senators, Chuck Schumer and Kristen Gillibrand, are making it clear that the state should correct that problem and pass the Gender Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA) in the current session. “We are proud of the great strides that have been made in the pursuit of fairness, justice and equality in recent years in our state, most recently with the passage of marriage equality for all New Yorkers, which we strongly supported,” the senators said in a letter. “Yet, the push for full equality has left thousands of our friends and neighbors behind; currently, transgender New Yorkers lack the statewide protections many take for granted. This measure would amend the New York human rights law to extend non-discrimination protections in employment, housing, public accommodations and access to credit to transgender New Yorkers. Passage of this bill will be a vital step on the path towards the goal of achieving equal protection for all.”

GAY “BLUES CLUES” ACTORS TO MARRY

Two actors form the touring “Blues Clues Live” show are planning to get married. Queerty reports:

Actors Tom Mizer and Travis McGhie are prepping for their upcoming nuptials by dropping wedding invitations in the mailbox, only this time, there’s no song and dance with a giant blue dog. The couple met while touring with “Blues Clues Live!”, a touring production based on the popular Nickelodeon kids show. McGhie served as Mizer’s understudy for Steve, the show’s leading role, but unlike most showmances between touring boys, this one actually lasted.

SNL FEATURES SEVERAL GAY MARRIAGE SKITS

This weekend’s Saturday Night Live featured several marriage equality skits. In the first, the show offered a remedy for gay summer weddings. The Huffington Post reports:

The sketch comedy showed featured a hilarious skit May 18 in which guests popped a new drug called “Xanax for Gay Summer Weddings” before heading out to their friends’ nuptials to reduce feelings of inadequacy while attending perfectly planned gay weddings.

Hit the link above for the video. In the second, Anderson Cooper was left at the altar. LGBT Weekly has the details:

CNN anchor Anderson Cooper played the groom in a surreal wedding scene send-off for Bill Hader’s Stefon character on the season finale of “Saturday Night Live.” Hader announced last week that he was leaving SNL after eight seasons to move to California and get more sleep, which meant his memorable characters were also saying goodbye. Stefon — Weekend Update’s New York City correspondent — gave one last report Saturday night, rushing off the set after telling anchor Seth Meyers, “You never respect me.”

 

Minnesota, USA: Recall Attempts Over Marriage Equality Bill Rejected

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

Minnesota mapSome fresh marriage equality news out of Minnesota today. The Chief Justice has thrown out a couple of attempted recalls against DFLers who voted for the marriage equality bill. TwinCities.com reports:

On the last day of the legislative session, the chief justice of the state Supreme Court has thrown out recall petitions filed against two DFL House members over their support for legalizing gay marriage. Chief Justice Lorie Gildea on Monday, May 20, dismissed the proposed petitions against Reps. Joe Radinovich of Crosby and John Ward of Baxter “for failure to allege specific facts that, if proven, would constitute grounds for recall.” Minnesota law sets a high bar for recalling elected officials.

Designer Isaac Mizrahi is thrilled that the bill passed. On Top Magazine reports:

During an appearance on HuffPost Live, Mizrahi gave Minnesota a big cheer and said that gay people need to be vocal about their rights. “You do have to be vocal about these things,” he said. “You have to keep talking about it. I am at this point where I’m proud to come out and fight that good fight. I’m not defensive anymore, I’m proactive about it.”

 

UK: Marriage Equality Bill Survives Amendment Onslaught

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

you tube bigA number of amendments were offered to the marriage equality bill, including at least one that could have killed it.

Pink News reports on one that would have allowed registrars opt out of performing same sex weddings:

An amendment to the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Bill tabled by Conservative MP David Burrowes, urging for registrars to be allowed to opt out of performing marriages for gay couples, has been defeated in the House of Commons. MPs voted 340 to 150 to reject the amendment. Those voting with Mr Burrowes included the Deputy Leader of the Liberal Democrats Simon Hughes. Mr Burrowes’ amendment stated: “Any duty of a registrar to conduct a marriage is not extended by this Act to marriages of same-sex couples where a registrar holds a conscientious objection to conducting such marriages”.

Current British law makes it illegal to deny goods or services based on sexual orientation.

Pam’s House Blend reports that several amendments were passed:

Friendly amendments passed, including Amendment 23 which “protects ministers of religion employed by secular organisations (eg as hospital or university chaplains) who refuse to carry out same sex marriages from claims being made against them personally under the employment provisions of the Equality Act 2010\0×2033, and Amendment 24 which “requires, rather than (as the Bill does at present) allows, the Lord Chancellor to make an order enabling the Church in Wales to marry same sex couples, if he is satisfied that the Church has resolved to do so,” according to LGBTory.

The Labour Party was successful in fending off an amendment that would have opened civil partnerships to straight couples as part of the marriage equality bill, a measure that had the potential to delay or kill the bill. Instead, the issue was passed in a separate measure:

Considerable debate was dedicated to amendments related to Civil Partnerships. New Clause 16, which commits the Government to undertake a prompt, formal review of Civil Partnerships after same-sex marriage is legalized, passed 391 to 57. New Clause 10, which would have extended Civil Partnerships to opposite-sex couples immediately, was rejected 375 to 70. MPs opposing NC 10 expressed concern that its adoption could delay passage of the bill, or even be used to scuttle it.

The Telegraph has a list of the MPs who voted for the poison pill amendment.

The Dish points out the rank hypocrisy of the marriage equality proponents:

The cynical wrecking amendment has gone down in flames – by 375 votes to 70. It’s a fascinating insight into the opposition to marriage equality on the far right. A conservative – yes, a conservative – was proposing to extend civil partnerships, i.e.e marriage-lite, to heterosexual couples rather than allow gay couples to be married. Such civil partnerships, if extended to everyone, as in France, would do much much more to undermine the institution of civil marriage than allowing gays to participate in the institution. It’s pretty obvious evidence that bigotry was behind this – a betrayal of core conservative principles in order to prevent gay equality.

The debate is exposing rifts in the Conservative Party, as Reuters reports:

Almost 40 percent of Cameron’s 303 lawmakers in the lower house of parliament voted for an ultimately unsuccessful amendment that would have allowed registrars to refuse to perform gay marriage ceremonies if they objected. Scores backed another amendment that the government said would have sabotaged its efforts to legalize same sex unions. Cameron’s failure to unite his ruling Conservative Party over gay marriage and over his other major policy – renegotiating Britain’s membership of the European Union – risks undermining his chances of being re-elected in 2015 even as the economy is showing signs of returning to growth.

Seeing Cameron stand for marriage equality even at his own political peril is inspiring.

Outside, a group of Christians prayed for the failure of the bill. Joe.My.God reports.

There will be more debate tomorrow, and then the bill should get its third and final reading, The Bilerico Project reports:

But today, members struck a deal allowing the equal marriage bill to proceed. Debate is scheduled for today and tomorrow (watch it live here), and the bill’s third reading — its last procedural hurdle in the House of Commons — will happen tomorrow as well.

 

Illinois, USA: Illinois Unites for Marriage Says House Has Votes to Pass Marriage Equality

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

Illinois Governor Pat QuinnMarriage equality advocates are saying they have the votes needed to pass the bill in the House. Towleroad reports:

Advocates for marriage equality in Illinois believe they have the votes to pass the bill and are ready to do so, the Windy City Times reports: “I have absolutely no doubt we’re going to be done with this by May 31,” said Jim Bennett, Midwest regional director for Lambda Legal. “I believe that this bill is going to pass.” Bennett declined to give a specific vote count, but said that he expected the bill could be called and passed any day. Rick Garcia, policy advisor for The Civil Rights Agenda, said he thinks the bill has the 60 votes needed for passage in the House. “I believe we’re there,” said Garcia. “The cake is baked. We’re waiting for the icing.”

Meanwhile, Governor Pat Quinn is pushing for a vote before May 31st. LGBTQ Nation reports:

Gov. Pat Quinn says Illinois has a chance to make history before the end of the legislative session, and is pressuring House lawmakers to act on the issue of marriage equality before the session ends next week. The Chicago Democrat said Monday that he wants lawmakers to approve a proposal on the table that would make Illinois the 13th state to legalize same-sex marriage. The plan cleared the Senate in February and awaits a House vote, which is expected to be close.

The Senate has already passed the bill, so a “yes” from the House would make Illinois the 13th state to pass marriage equality.

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Michigan and Same Sex Marriage a No-Brainer

Written by Timothy Chase on May 20th, 2013

MichiganIs the State of Michigan ready to get on the band wagon or will it come down to a ballot issue?  This must be giving Snyder sleepless nights.

The 2014 election offers Michiganders an important do-over on gay marriage, a chance to erase the economic handicap and cultural stain that the 2004 constitutional ban has visited upon our state.

And while Gov. Rick Snyder is no fan of judicial activism, he must be hoping that the U.S. Supreme Court will throw out Michigan’s same-sex marriage ban before shifting public opinion strands him and other Republicans seeking statewide office on the wrong side of history.

A new survey by the respected Glengariff Group, which has been polling Michiganders’ attitudes toward the issue annually since October 2004, reveals that voters in the Great Lakes State now back gay marriage by a 57%-38% margin — an almost exact reversal of the electorate’s disposition nine years ago, when 58% of Michigan voters supported a state constitutional amendment outlawing the recognition of same-sex marriages.

Yes: Michiganders have apparently followed national trends in which tolerance and acceptance have overcome bigotry and injustice. This state might now be poised to join the 12 others that refuse to deny people basic human rights because of whom they love.

The Glengariff results — which are consistent with polling data highlighting similarly seismic attitude shifts in Virginia and Arizona — two other states that have outlawed gay marriage within the last decade — augur the inevitable demise of discriminatory marriage laws here and elsewhere.

That’s good news for the Rick Snyder who wants to eradicate obstacles that discourage talented young people from staying in or moving to our state.

In a 123-page study released earlier this year, the Michigan Department of Civil Rights warned that the constitutional ban on same-sex marriage is repelling the professionals and college-educated residents Snyder seeks to attract. A popular vote to repeal the ban — which could come as early as next year — would send a positive signal to gay and young people who regard the issue as a litmus test for tolerance and commitment to diversity.

But a ballot initiative could pose a political challenge for Snyder and other Republican candidates walking the tightrope between the growing majority of Michiganders who support same-sex marriage and the dwindling-but-still-significant number of GOP voters who continue to oppose it.

While the success of any repeal effort is far from guaranteed, a ballot initiative would make it difficult for GOP candidates to sidestep the issue, with predictable hazards for their prospects in both the August GOP primary and the November general.

A stunning change of heart
For Democrats running statewide, the decision to support a repeal initiative would be simple. Fully, 75% of Democratic voters now support recognition of same-sex marriages, up from 71% in a Glengariff poll conducted a year ago. Among voters who identify themselves as independents, support has jumped from just 36% in 2012, to 51% — a 15-percentage-point swing.

But the most dynamic shift has taken place among Republican voters, whose support for same-sex marriage has soared 17 points, to 37% from 20% in the 2012 survey.

Republicans older than 40 continue to oppose gay marriage by a 63%-32% margin. But a 54% majority of GOP voters younger than 40 support it, and Republicans in Macomb, Oakland and Wayne counties are evenly split.

Glengariff’s Richard Czuba summed up the Republicans’ dilemma in an interview with the Michigan Information and Research Service last week: “While same-sex opposition will have strong resonance among Republican primary voters in out-state Michigan,” Czuba said, “Republicans will increasingly have to deal with the opposite effect in southeast Michigan — particularly Oakland County, where support is now up to 68%.”

Snyder’s blazing straddle
Except for his December 2011 decision to sign a bill barring medical benefits for same-sex partners of government employees, Snyder has been careful not to ally himself too closely with his party’s staunchest opponents of gay marriage.

He insists his decision to end same-sex medical benefits was calculated to conserve limited state resources, not discriminate against gay employees. He speaks often of his interest in making Michigan a place where no one feels excluded, and he points to a growing body of data suggesting that attracting and retaining talent is the key to Michigan’s long-term prosperity.

Supporting legislative action to dismantle one of the most conspicuous vestiges of state-sanctioned discrimination may be politically hazardous for Michigan Republicans, but it’s utterly consistent with the values to which Snyder pays lip service.

In other policy arenas, especially immigration, the governor and his inner circle have lobbied for initiatives that lower barriers to talent; now that a substantial majority of Michiganders seem to have turned against the gay marriage ban, removing that obstacle seems like a no-brainer, too.

Not whether, but when
Marriage equality may come to Michigan as soon as this summer, when the U.S. Supreme Court could rule — in a case that challenges California’s less-onerous discrimination against same-sex couples — that all state bans are unconstitutional.

Even if the justices stop short of such a sweeping decision, as most court-watchers expect them to, U.S. District Judge Bernard Friedman could reject or limit Michigan’s ban in a separate lawsuit brought by two Oakland County women seeking to jointly adopt each other’s children.

But whatever the courts do, the die has been cast in Michigan, just as it was cast in Minnesota, Maryland and the 10 other states that have adopted legislation recognizing same-sex ceremonies.

The question is whether Snyder and his fellow Republicans will elect to participate in that historic sea change — or stand agape as it washes over them.

 

USA: 2010 Federal Census Shows Same Sex Households On the Rise

Written by Timothy Chase on May 20th, 2013

titleThe 2010 Federal census revealed that there were 600,000 gay households of which 115,000 were raising children.  Whether Scotus votes favorably on the same sex marriage issues, the nation is beginning to open their eyes and see for themselves that what they thought they knew is far from the truth about same sex couples.  The divorce rate not to mention the infidelity rate in the U.S. is on the rise.  What does this say about the institution of marriage as viewed by the church and the heterosexuals?  Common sense would indicate that if two  people would move heaven and earth just to  commit to one another, that must be true love.

Traditionally a man and a woman marry either because the sex was good, one has money, one is pregnant or just to prove they are straight.  The number of married men who have gay affairs on the side thinking it is acceptable is astounding.  The time has come for America to truly be the land of the free and honor the civil rights afforded to us by our constitution.  What drives the bans put into state constitutions and defeat of legal marriage benefits is fear.  It holds a certain amount of irony when you think of it.  Our ancestors came to America looking for freedom, yet over time they have become the very people they left on the shores of Europe.  Just how does same sex marriage damage the so called institute of marriage?  Is is because same sex couples would be able to get the same tax deductions or health coverage?  What makes heterosexuals better than homosexuals?  Children are not blind nor are they stupid.  They tend to see things for just what they are.  Love is love whether it be for a man and a woman, a man and another man or a woman and another woman.  we can either choose to be a part of a movement for freedom or get left in the dust as the train leaves the station.  It is going to happen within the next 5 years and there is nothing that can stop the movement.  It may take another Stonewall, however the gay community is ready to make that move.

 

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Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

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UK: More Marriage Equality Bill Updates

Written by scott on May 20th, 2013

UK Prime Minister David CameronThey’re coming in fast and furious this morning. First off, gay activist Peter Tatchell is supporting the amendment to allow straight couples to enter into civil partnerships. Pink News reports:

I urge MPs to vote for the right of heterosexual couples to have a civil partnership. Banning them is wrong. This is a simple issue of equality. Just as gay couples should be allowed to marry, straight couples should be permitted to join together in a civil partnership. There should be no discrimination in civil marriage and civil partnership law.

The Labour Party, which was supporting the amendment, has turned against it, worried it would kill the marriage equality bill – instead, they would pursue the idea as a separate matter. Gay Star News reports:

British political party Labour has announced they have abandoned support for a ‘wrecking’ amendment supporting opposite-sex civil partnerships today (20 May). Yvette Cooper, the Shadow Home Secretary and the Shadow Equalities Minister, has announced Labour will table its own amendment. As outlined on The World At One, she explained the amendment would establish ‘an immediate consultation on opposite-sex civil partnerships’, which, she said, could begin even before the bill has completed its parliamentary pasage.

Smart – get ahead of the issue, get it going, but don’t use it to slow down or stall the marriage equality bill.

The UK’s Shadow Home Secretary and Minister for Women and Equalities, Yvette Cooper, is calling for Prime Minister Cameron to stay firm in his support of marriage equality. Pink News reports:

Shadow Home Secretary and Minister for Women and Equalities, Yvette Cooper, says she hopes “David Cameron will show confidence and not allow the equal marriage bill to get sucked into another vortex of bitter Tory wrangling.” Writing for the Independent, the Labour MP said: “The equal marriage bill is back in the Commons – and it’s about time it got the celebratory fanfare it deserves. So far we’ve heard the shouting from the Tory right. Ministers are gritting their teeth and wishing it was over. The prime minister has gone to ground. Yet this bill is no embarrassment to be rushed through: it is a cause for celebration and I hope MPs across the Commons will feel proud to pass it this week.”

Cameron seems to be doing just that, dispelling rumors that the Government might dump the bill. Pink News reports:

David Cameron is in full support of equal marriage, and the matter of whether the Government supports equal marriage is not in question, a Downing Street spokesman has confirmed. The source told PinkNews that, despite earlier reports that the Government would not rule out withdrawing its support for equal marriage, that passing it is David Cameron’s “paramount concern”, and that Downing Street would simply be deciding how best to make same-sex marriage legal, if an amendment to allow straight civil partnerships were to pass.

Hope springs eternal.

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