USA, California: Judge Rules Against Group Trying to Repeal Transgender Kids Law

Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

Transgender FlagA group fighting to repeal a bill protecting transgender kids suffered another setback in court today.

LGBTQ Nation reports:

A judge in Sacramento has ruled that elections officials in 30 California counties do not have to turn over records that would help sponsors of a failed ballot referendum challenge the invalidation of thousands of voter signatures. Superior Court Judge Timothy Frawley on Friday granted the state’s request to quash subpoenas issued on behalf of Privacy for All Students, which sought to repeal a new law that spells out the rights of transgender students in public schools. Relying on counts submitted by county offices, the secretary of state determined in February that the group was about 17,000 signatures short of the number needed to qualify its proposed referendum to repeal the law.

Hopefully this will put an end to this hateful attempt to take away the rights of some of the most vulnerable kids in the state.

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Featured Gay Friendly Wedding Vendor: Ceremonies For Sacred Days, San Francisco

Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

Ceremonies For Sacred Days - San FranciscoPeriodically we’ll feature one of our vendors here to let our readers know about some great people who can help you plan the perfect wedding.

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Marriage Equality Round-Up 4/19/14

Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

Gay Wedding - HandsHere’s our daily quick round-up of the marriage equality and LGBT rights stories that don’t warrant a full posting on the blog, or that we just didn’t have time to add. We’re able to get more news and analysis to you this way every day – enjoy!

USA, Colorado: A group of 215 faith leaders have stepped up to support marriage equality in the state. full story

USA, Florida: A judge has just overturned an earlier ruling that would have forced the University of Central Florida to turn over records related to the widely discredited Regnerus study. full story

USA, Florida: The lesbian plaintiffs in a marriage equality case in Florida have been invited to the White House for the annual Easter Egg Roll. full story

USA, Illinois: The thousandth same sex couple just received a marriage license in Cook County. full story

USA, North Carolina: WRAL profiles two military families who are plaintiffs for marriage equality in the state. full story

USA, Ohio: 91.3 WYSO looks at the status of the marriage equality fight in Ohio. full story

USA, South Carolina: An anti-gay Mayor has fired the city’s openly lesbian Police Chief. full story

USA, Virginia: Three constitutional scholars, including the main architect of Virginia’s current constitution, filed court papers supporting Attorney General Mark Herring’s decision not to defend the state’s marriage equality ban. full story

USA, Virginia: Equality North Carolina and the South Carolina Equality Coalition have filed a joint brief in the state’s marriage equality lawsuit. full story


USA, Utah: Anti Gay Senator Orrin Hatch: Gay Marriage Will Win

Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

Utah Senator Orrin HatchUS Senator Orrin Hatch, a Mormon and opponent of marriage equality, thinks the Supreme Court will ultimately support it.

On Top Magazine reports:

On Thursday, Hatch told Salt Lake City CBS affiliate KUTV that “many feel that once it gets to the Supreme Court, they’ll find an equal protection or due process situation that would allow gay marriage in every state.” “Well, I’m hoping that the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals will decide that the states have a right to decide their version of marriage,” he added, a reference to a Utah appeal to uphold the state’s ban.

Even some of our fiercest critics are now saying they think that marriage eqwuality will win – how far we have come.

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Italy: Central Italian Town Votes for Marriage Equality

Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

Antonio Garullo and Mario Ottocento

A small town just south of Rome has voted to support recognition of a same sex couple’s wedding. reports:

Antonio Garullo and Mario Ottocento [pictured] were the first Italian gay couple to be married more than 10 years ago in Holland. In 2004 they asked the Ufficio dello Stato Civile of the Comune of Latina to register their marriage but their application was turned down. So the couple sued theComune of Latina, but in 2005 the Tribunale of latina rejected their complaint. Then they appealed the Court decision to the Court of Appeal of Rome where they found a second denial. Eventually the couple appealed the second negative decision to the Supreme Court of Cassation. In 2012 this court rejected their appeal but delivered a landmark opinion for LGBT rights. That Court said that the Italian laws should treat gay and straight couple equally. Antonio and Mario asked the Comune of Latina to record their marriage on April 15 and this afternoon the Council of the Latina approved in a 14-2 vote (1 absentee) a motion in support of the record of their marriage.

It’s now up to the Italian Government to decide whether to approve Latina’s request.

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USA, Utah: Could Marriage Equality Case Be Dismissed Over Standing Issues?

Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

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After worries surfaced that the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit at the Tenth Circuit could be dismissed, similar worries have come up over the Utah lawsuit, also at the Tenth Circuit. reports:

Questions have being raised about standing in the 10th Circuit appeal of Kitchen v. Herbert, the ruling striking down Utah’s ban on gay marriage, and some believe the court could dismiss the case because the proper defendants were not named in the suit… During Utah’s arguments last week, Judge Jerome A. Holmes — widely considered to be the “vote to get” in the case — asked Tomsic to explain why the defendants her plaintiffs had singled out were appropriate. Further, he asked whether the state continued to have the right to appeal the case, given that Salt Lake County Clerk Sherrie Swensen declined to appeal Judge Shelby’s Dec. 20 decision to overturn Utah’s same-sex marriage ban. “You sued the clerk of court,” Holmes said, referring to Swensen. “But the clerk of court is not on the appeal, and, it would seem to me that creates a fundamental basis for concern about where jurisdiction lies in this case.”

Marriage equality cases seem to regularly involve standing issues – is it because there is something inherent in the fight for marriage equality. or is this just a standard tool of the opposition to try to derail them?

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Written by scott on April 19th, 2014

Seriously?Here’s the the latest in our ongoing series of some of the crazy things the anti-gay, anti-marriage equality folks are saying and doing around the world.

You Should Thank Jesus For Having Any Gay Rights
Any rights “gay radicals” have are from Jesus Christ, according to TruthRevolt writer Andrew Klavan: “You have the Bible and Jesus Christ to thank for the fact that you even conceive of yourself as creatures with rights… Your cause is in the ascendant, gay radicals who hate Christianity. And so you think you can safely abandon the Judaeo-Christian fundamentals that got you here: tolerance, freedom of conscience, forgiveness.” Because the countries with gay rights are predominantly Christian.
full story Joe.My.God puts it better than I could: “Klaven is apparently unaware that several of the largest Christian groups in the United States have repeatedly called for re-criminalizing homosexuality. Or that in several states God’s Own Party has refused to repeal unconstitutional laws against sodomy. Or that Uganda, which is 85% Christian, has among the most brutal anti-gay laws in the world and very nearly approved the death penalty for for homosexuality.”
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Adults Will Soon Start Marrying Children
Conservative commentator John Calvin “Cal” Thomas updates the old slippery slope argument: “You have the people who believe in adult-child marriage, they already do this in certain Muslim countries, these people want the rights as an adult to marry a child,” Thomas added. “So all I’m asking, and what I do in debates is say, if the line has shifted now and we accept same-sex marriage, where would you then draw the line and on what basis?” How about at two adults who are capable of informed consent?
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Homosexuality Will Destroy The World!
Patriarch Abune Mathias, head of Ethiopia’s Orthodox Church, apparently pissed that an anti gay rally and law were cancelled this week, said that the “sin that burnt Sodom and Gomorrah in Ethiopia not only erodes the holiness that God has bestowed upon Ethiopians, but it will bring destruction and damage, rather than development and growth… I would like to confirm to all Ethiopian that the Ethiopian Orthodox Church will fight this grand sin fiercely to the end. It is outside of God’s and Nature’s laws. Everyone should resist it. It is unnatural. It is condemned in the bible.” Let’s ask God, shall we? I’ll bet it’s actually hatred and bigotry that falls “outside of God’s and Nature’s laws.”
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You Can Keep Your Homosexual Nonsense
Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe says his country will kick out any pro-gay diplomats: “Some years ago, l was warned that there was some secret organisation of that nature which was addressing young men…to join them as homosexuals. This nonsense from Europe, keep their homosexual nonsense there and not cross over with it… We did not fight for this Zimbabwe so it can be a homosexual territory. We will never have that here and if there are any diplomats who will talk of any homosexuality, just tell me. We will kick them out of the country without any excuse. We won’t even listen.” Seriously? He actually said he heard that “some secret organisation of that nature which was addressing young men…to join them as homosexuals”? Scott Lively and friends’ work in Africa continues to bear fruit.
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Featured Gay Friendly Wedding Vendor: HollyHedge Estate, New Hope, Pennsylvania

Written by scott on April 18th, 2014

HollyHedge EstatePeriodically we’ll feature one of our vendors here to let our readers know about some great people who can help you plan the perfect wedding.

Gay Wedding Event Location in New Hope, PA, USA. Nestled in the rolling hills of beautiful Bucks County, you will find an elegant fieldstone manor known as HollyHedge Estate. Sitting on over twenty acres of floral gardens, elegant waterscapes and classic stone terraces, HollyHedge Estate is the perfect venue for any season. From our award-winning cuisine to rustic charm, our full-service staff will help make your event one for the ages.

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Marriage Equality Round-Up 4/17/14

Written by scott on April 18th, 2014

Gay WeddingHere’s our daily quick round-up of the marriage equality and LGBT rights stories that don’t warrant a full posting on the blog, or that we just didn’t have time to add. We’re able to get more news and analysis to you this way every day – enjoy!

Canada: Pete LaBarbera relates his terrible time in prison on hate speech charges. They wouldn’t give him a bible! full story

India: For the first time, LGBT rights are figuring into a national election. full story

Malta: A new MaltaToday online poll says that a majority of respondents think that the Civil Unions’ Act should have been debated longer because it includes gay adoption. full story

Namibia: The Commissioner for Refugees Nkrumah Mushelenga says gays from Uganda will not be granted asylum there. full story

Uganda: A group is gathering funds to help get LGBT activists out of the country. full story

Uganda: The country is getting ready to try the first men charged under the new anti-gay law. full story

UK: A judge who called marriage equality a “shambles” is retiring. full story

USA: Andrew Sullivan takes on Jo Becker’s new book that says the fight for marriage equality began in 2008. full story

USA: A group of three transgender veterans have filed a request to have their gender changed on their discharge paperwork. full story

USA, California: A new state law says that insurance companies must provide fertility treatment coverage for LGBT couples. full story

USA, Colorado: The Tenth Circuit could bring marriage equality to the state by this summer. full story

USA, Michigan: Roberta Kaplan, the lawyer who fought the DOMA case at the US Supreme Court, is seeking to intervene in the Michigan case. full story

USA, Ohio: Equality Ohio is seeking to intervene in the appeal of the marriage equality case. full story

USA, Oregon: An openly gay federal judge will hear a marriage equality case in the state next week. full story

USA, Oregon: The state is readying revised marriage licenses in case a Federal Judge strikes down the state’s ban on marriage equality after the hearing next week. full story

USA, Pennsylvania: Montgomery County officials stood with state lawmakers and marriage equality advocates at a rally in Pennsylvania outside of the courthouse Thursday afternoon. full story

USA, Washington DC: A group of American activists protested at the South African Embassy in DC against President Jacob Zuma’s recent comments that he supports the Ugandan Governments right to pass the Anti-Homosexuality Act. full story


UK: Grandfather Writes Beautiful Letter in Support of Gay Grandson

Written by scott on April 18th, 2014


After a boy’s mother threw him out of the house for being gay, his Grandfather wrote a beautiful letter in support of his grandson.

The Gay UK reports:

In the letter he calls his daughter an ‘abomination’, after she threw her son, Chad, out of her home after he told her that he was gay. The father went on to say: ‘The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that you “didn’t raise your son to be gay” . Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than being left handed.’

This grandfather puts the boy’s mother to shame.

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