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Australia: Queensland Lesbian Couple Plans Civil Union Celebration

Sunday, February 5th, 2012

Lesbian Couple and Civil UnionsWHEN the Michaels’ first child is born in April, they want it to know it came into the world as part of a loving family. A loving, legally recognised, family.

Suzanne, 29, and partner Shannon, 30, were married in Canada a little more than two years ago, but their union was not recognised by Australian authorities.

Now, after yesterday’s announcement that the February 23 start date for the Civil Partnership Act had been approved by the Governor, their relationship, already accepted by family, friends and society, will finally be recognised by Queensland law.

Full Story from smh.com.au

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Australia: Civil Unions to Begin in Queensland on March 5th

Friday, February 3rd, 2012

Queensland Civil UnionsQUEENSLAND’S first same-sex civil unions will be held three weeks before the state’s election in a bid to ensure the reforms endure if the Bligh government is defeated.

Deputy Premier Andrew Fraser will today announce legislation had been approved for civil unions to start on February 23, with ceremonies able to be held from March 5. “This is a landmark and historic occasion,” Mr Fraser said.

“I know that for many people this day has been a long time coming. While it isn’t marriage, it is the next best thing and as far as a state government can go in promoting relationship equality.”

Full Story from The Australian

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Getting Married in Hawaii, Part 4: Photos Again? Taking it Up!

Thursday, February 2nd, 2012

Certainly on every Hawaiian wedding day there will be images of all the essential moments–the couple greeting one another, the declaration of vows, the exchange of rings, hands entwined atop a mound of flowers, the kiss (oh, the kiss!), the celebratory HUZZAH! at the presentation of the couple for the first time as husband and husband, wife and wife or as sacred partners in the journey of life by the officiant at the end of the ceremony. These images can be ho-hum or dazzling depending on the combination of skill and passion in the photographer. Yes, let’s opt for a passionate, skillful photographer!

Beyond the ceremony, there is no limit in the creativity of the photos that capture the magic of the day and tell a true love story. After the ceremony it’s time for fun! A photo shoot will be fun with a photographer who is playful her/himself and has the gift of allowing others to be themselves and let go a bit (or a lot). Being in Hawaii can allow the kid in each of us to come out and play, and a wedding photo shoot is the perfect time for that to happen.

I’ve never met a kid who didn’t like to play on the beach and in the water, too. A romantic and playful beach photo shoot can go as far as imagination can take it and even then more surprises almost always happen spontaneously. Drawing hearts in the sand, running down the beach, jumping, walking barefoot hand in hand along the shoreline, water lapping over your feet–all these are but a beginning of possibilities.

Climbing a tree at the edge of the beach, wading into the water, playing in the waves… The beach lends itself endlessly to play and, funnily enough, some scientists are actually saying play will save humanity. I say, “I want to be part of that!”

Waterfall weddings can give rise to even more playful antics. One bride said, “We’re never going to wear these dresses again. Let’s get in the waterfall.” The next thing we knew two brides were splashing each other, laughing and cavorting in the pool at the base of the fall, dresses hanging like wet flower petals. After another wedding one of the grooms just started taking his shirt off and the photographer kept shooting. Two grooms climbing the fall? That day photos captured the whole playful story.

Now here’s a new trend: A Trash the Dress (or Trash the Tux) photo shoot. Usually this shoot is scheduled the day after the wedding (but with no guests it could be a continuation of the wedding shoot as the unexpected waterfall shots were).

Hawaii has a wonderful element for Trash photos: the luscious red dirt that, with a little water, becomes beyond luscious to lascivious (!) red mud. It’s smooth and silky and makes a glorious Trash opportunity. Jumping in the ocean or rolling in the sand? Sure, these will give great Trash photos, but between you and me, it’s the red mud that finishes the job.

Another popular new trend is to have a photo booth at your Hawaii wedding reception so guests can pull you into the booth with them–or vice versa–and take some of those great candid shots that only seem to emerge when taken in a tiny space with curtains all around. Ah, the photo booth. I thought those days were gone but on Kauai, at least, it is easy to hire a photo booth for the evening from Photo Booth Kauai.

Sometimes timing doesn’t allow a couple to have all the photos they’d like on their wedding day. A couple of options can expand photo opportunities for an unforgettable Hawaiian wedding trip. A Couple’s Engagement Shoot can take place even the day before the wedding.

Time to unwind from the long trip over to Hawaii, time to nestle in together in casual clothes, time to savor the pre-wedding excitement and lavish one another with love–all with a photographer near at hand to make sure the time in exquisite Hawaii will be remembered for the rest of a couple’s lives…

Another option is the Honeymoon Memories Shoot which can take place a day or two after the wedding. Here, with the excitement of their wedding day behind them, a couple can really let go and relax into being married, settle into the arms of the beloved, begin to nurture the relationship of a lifetime with their new spouse.

Again, the sweetness of this place and this occasion–the union of two exquisite beings in this most voluptuous place, Hawaii–is gently held and presented by a photographer who celebrates their love alongside the couple. Another wonderful benefit of an Engagement Shoot or a Honeymoon Memories Shoot is that the couple can choose a different location from their wedding site. The wedding’s on the beach; the engagement or memories shoot is at the waterfall or one of the stunning tropical gardens on the island.

The most important thing about Hawaii wedding photos is that they capture the beautiful feeling of a couple in love in the glorious tropical paradise that Hawaii is. Whether you tend toward a more traditional life and want photos that reflect that or whether you want to go absolutely wild on your wedding trip and have images to show for it or if you fall somewhere in the middle, there are the perfect photographer and photo opportunities for you. Hawaii is an embracing environment and most people feel at home as soon as they step off the plane. Photos taken of folks who feel at home are the best. Enjoy the journey!

Virginia St. ClairVirginia St. Claire, lesbian owner of In Heaven Commitments, has a wonderful team of wedding professionals to help couples create and celebrate beautiful weddings and sacred unions on the islands of Kauai and Oahu. In Heaven Commitments offers full wedding services from the simplest of barefoot-in-the-sand beach weddings to elegant formal weddings and receptions. They provide everything a couple may need-ceremony, photography, videography, music, flowers, cake and champagne/cider, simple or full-service catering, plus all the extras like doves, a sand unity ceremony, hula, conch and chant, etc. Every wedding is celebrated in peace and with joy and love.

In honor of the new Civil Unions law which too effect January 1st 2012, In Heaven Commitments, which provides Civil Union and Commitment Celebrations on the islands of Kauai and Oahu, is offering a 10% discount for all Kauai services during the months of January and February, 2012 to our LGBT family. Visit our website at inheavencommitments.com; or contact Stacy Mallory at 808 639 3202.

DE: State May Reach 1,000 Civil Unions By Year’s End

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Delaware Civil UnionsSince civil unions became legal in the state on Jan. 1, there have been 138 civil union licenses issued statewide.

Based on these numbers, Delawarel could reach 1,000 civil unions this year — 400 more than projected, said Ken Boulden, clerk of the peace for New Castle County.

The county issued 70 civil union licenses since Jan. 1 — or as many as were originally estimated for the entire state.

Full Story from Delaware Online

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Getting Married in Hawaii, Part 3: Wedding Photos Are the Memory Keepers

Monday, January 23rd, 2012

Hawaii Lesbian Wedding PhotosNo matter where a couple marries, wedding photos that capture the spirit of the couple, their unique individual qualities as well as what makes them a great couple are essential. That’s even more true in Hawaii where the pristine aqua waters, the tropical feel of the surroundings, and the softness of the air can be felt in the photos themselves when the right photographer is taking the photos.

Looking at traditional wedding photos over the years, I’ve often noticed that it’s the dress I see, the tux I see. I have to look closely to see the people inside the clothes. Yet photos are one of the most important elements of a wedding day precisely because they are the one thing that will last through the years and bring back the memories of the celebratory magic of that most special day.

Kauai Gay Wedding PhotosIt may be tempting to say “yes” to a family member or friend who says, “Oh, I’m a great photographer. Why pay someone to take your photographs? I’ll do it for free!” Or they may offer to do the photos for a reduced price. Yikes! That can be a big mistake as some couples have told us afterwards. Not only is it important to look closely at the galleries of professional photographers in Hawaii before selecting the person who will carry this essential element of your wedding day, it’s also important to choose a photographer who will allow you to be yourselves, to feel free to express your tenderness and your joy as you will.

Photojournalist Candace Freeland came to Hawaii and began doing wedding photography after a twenty-five year career working for newspapers, magazines, and news services. In her work for the past twelve years she has honored the “enduring legacy of sensitively crafted photographic images.”

Having worked with well over a thousand couples myself, I think most people would agree that the two most important things in a wedding are the depth, feeling and spirit of the ceremony itself and the photography. As Freeland says, “Everything else, as wonderful as it is, is a fine addition to the celebration, but please cover the ceremony and photography first because those are the things that will last a lifetime.”

Oahu Lesbian Wedding PhotosFreeland, herself, is gay and has a special affinity and feels especially happy when she finds she is going to photograph a wedding for ‘family’. She says, “I have an image in my mind. I know how important it is to me to do a fabulous job for my couples, to capture as many moments of magic as I can so they can relive the fun, the tenderness, the happiness, the beauty of their sacred union, of their loving commitment. For many people coming to Hawaii to celebrate their union may be a once-in-a-lifetime visit. To be able to document for couples madly in love with each other getting married on a gorgeous beach in the Hawaiian Islands on this one day they’ve chosen to declare their love for one another gives me a lot of joy and satisfaction.”

In photojournalism images are used to tell a story without words. The photographer must have the ability to act quickly when the scene before her or him is story-worthy. What more glorious story to tell than that of a Hawaiian wedding day!

Oahu gay Wedding PhotosA photographer must be able to capture the lovely tropical setting and the placement of the couple, celebrant and friends in the context of the beach, garden, waterfall or wherever the wedding is held. Photos during the ceremony include close-up shots of each partner speaking their vows and looking their beloved in the eye, the exchange of rings and the joy when the celebrant says, “You may now kiss one another.”

After the ceremony, Freeland takes the couple for a romantic photo shoot on the beach, around the garden or at the waterfall. Often couples will arrange for all three locations. (In Heaven Commitments, for example, offers a Kauai Wedding Excursion for Two with three locations for photos.) Freeland says, “We have a fun and playful time photographing family and friends and then we take a romp on the beach [or wherever] with lots of candid images of the the couple frolicking in paradise, happy, free, and full of love.” Pure magic!

What about the more traditional wedding shots? Freeland likes to do some lightly posed shots at times and also use her photojournalistic skills to “capture the action unscripted of playing on the beach, dancing, climbing the tree, whatever we can come up with that’s fun and feels natural and easy.”

Having the most gorgeous photos taken is, however, only the first step. How the images are presented is important, too. Freeland presents an online gallery of images on her Blue Pearl Images site where friends and family can order prints. She also provides the couple with full rights to their images and gives them a CD. She will craft a beautiful coffee table wedding album which will become, perhaps, the first heirloom for the new family.

Long ago someone said, “A picture is worth a thousand words,” and this is no less true today when everyone has a camera that will take thousands of photos in record time. Yet how wonderful to have each image be worth a thousand beautiful, exclamatory words. Choosing the right photographer can be another fun and easy part of a couple’s Hawaiian wedding plan. A little meandering around the web and voila! Images that dazzle and bring the glorious day back year after year not only to our eyes but to our hearts as well.

Virginia St. ClairVirginia St. Claire, lesbian owner of In Heaven Commitments, has a wonderful team of wedding professionals to help couples create and celebrate beautiful weddings and sacred unions on the islands of Kauai and Oahu. In Heaven Commitments offers full wedding services from the simplest of barefoot-in-the-sand beach weddings to elegant formal weddings and receptions. They provide everything a couple may need-ceremony, photography, videography, music, flowers, cake and champagne/cider, simple or full-service catering, plus all the extras like doves, a sand unity ceremony, hula, conch and chant, etc. Every wedding is celebrated in peace and with joy and love.

In honor of the new Civil Unions law which will take effect January 1st 2012, In Heaven Commitments, which provides Civil Union and Commitment Celebrations on the islands of Kauai and Oahu, is offering a 10% discount for all Kauai services during the months of January and February, 2012 to our LGBT family. Visit our website at inheavencommitments.com; or contact Stacy Mallory at 808 639 3202.

You can find Candace Freeland’s website here: http://www.bluepearlimages.com.

Cuba to Consider Civil Unions

Tuesday, January 17th, 2012

Cuba’s National Assembly this year will take up the issue of civil unions for same-sex couples, as part of the Communist government’s bid to end discrimination, the president’s daughter said on Monday.

‘According to the Justice Minister (Maria Esther Reus) … it is going to be discussed in the assembly, and is on the agenda for 2012,’ Mariela Castro, the sex educator daughter of President Raul Castro, told the state website ‘Cuba Si’.

The issue on the table will be civil unions for gays and lesbians, but not gay marriage, the report said.

Full Story from the Straits Times

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IL: Man Sues to Overturn Springfield Health Benefits Decision

Sunday, January 15th, 2012

Springfield, IL Health Benefits and Civil UnionsA lawsuit has been filed by Bruce Rushton, a reporter for the Illinois Times, claiming that the Springfield Joint Labor/Management Health Care Committee voted to grant health benefits to couples in civil unions. Rushton claims that the Committee violated the Open Meetings Act. He hopes to have the decision by the committee declared void.

The Civil Rights Agenda stated in a press release:

The Civil Rights Agenda is currently working with members of the Springfield City Council and other allies to determine the best course of action. The Civil Rights Agenda’s Legal Council confirms that the Committee meeting, held in private with no notice to the public, could in fact be a violation of the Open Meetings Act. While it is unfortunate that this may impede the enforcement of civil union health benefits that should be granted to Springfield city employees, The Civil Rights Agenda must address the larger issues of freedom of speech, freedom of the press, and access to decision-making bodies acting on behalf of the public, which is addressed under the Open Meetings Act.

Full Story from Lez Get Real

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Italy: Sicilian Bishop Says Country Should Recognize Civil Unions

Friday, January 13th, 2012

Italy Civil UnionsA Catholic bishop in Sicily broke with the Vatican to declare that the Italian government should recognize same-sex unions.

Paolo Urso, bishop of the Sicilian city of Ragusa said gay couples should be legally recognized, ANSA reported Thursday.

“When two people, even if they’re the same sex, decide to live together, it’s important for the State to recognize this fact,” he was quoted as saying. “But it must be called something different from marriage.”

Full Story from UPI

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CO: Governor Backs Passage of Civil Unions Bill

Thursday, January 12th, 2012

Colorado Governor Supports Civil UnionsGov. John Hickenlooper urged lawmakers Thursday to move forward on social and financial goals this session, encouraging them to prove “cynics” wrong and show they can cooperate to legalize civil unions for same-sex couples and make Colorado more business-friendly.

The Democratic governor made his highest-profile push in support of legal protections for gay and lesbian couples during his State of the State address, saying “government should treat all people equally.”

“It’s time to pass civil unions,” Hickenlooper said to applause and a standing ovation from Democrats. Most, if not all, Republicans remained seated.

Full Story from The Republic

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Civil Unions: Better Than Nothing, But…

Wednesday, January 11th, 2012

As of New Year’s Day, LGBT residents of Delaware and Hawaii can finally enter into civil unions. Sounds awfully romantic, huh? I have mixed feelings on the subject. So do lots of other LGBT people.

How would you like to be proposed to and enter in a civil union? How often do you see civil unions on wedding blogs? Do civil unions change the world?

And what on earth is a civil union, anyway? This definition comes from the Gay Wedding Institute glossary:

A legal union of a same-sex couple, sanctioned by a civil authority. New Jersey, Illinois, Rhode Island, Delaware and Hawaii are the U.S. states with civil unions. They were legal in Vermont and Connecticut at a time, before both states approved legal gay marriage. Civil unions are not equal to marriage, though they provide some (but not all) rights of marriage. Civil unions are not sanctioned by the federal government and couples with civil unions receive no federal benefits.

Full Story from the Huffington Post

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