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President Obama The View | Seeks to Repeal DOMA in Second Term

Monday, May 14th, 2012

Somewhat buried in CNN’s story on Barack Obama’s fundraiser in New York is this little tidbit about his administration’s plans for marriage equality—

He also outlined goals he hopes to accomplish under a second term, including the repeal of the Defense Of Marriage Act, which the administration has already stopped defending.

This is the first time Obama has said that he will actively work to repeal the law.

At the fundraiser, hosted by openly gay pop star Ricky Martin, Obama called same-sex marriage the “right thing to do.” He also said that contrary to what many right wing pundits have alleged, marriage equality will help families.

I want everyone treated fairly in this country. We have never gone wrong when we’ve extended rights and responsibilities to everybody. That doesn’t weaken families, that strengthens families.

The President also touched on his freshly out same-sex marriage stance on The View. The segment, which he taped today, will air on ABC tomorrow.

According to some White House officials, Obama had intended to speak out in favor of marriage equality on the talk show, but he was spurred forward by Joe Biden’s early endorsement.

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Rev. Dyson Challenges Black Pastors who do not support Obama on Equality

Monday, May 14th, 2012

On Friday, May 11, Rev. Dr. Michael Eric Dyson, guest host of MSNBC’s The Ed Show, challenged Black pastors who are critical of President Obama’s historic endorsement of marriage equality.

“Black leaders of faith should not use the Bible to suppress the rights of LGBT community just like the Bible was used to suppress the rights of Black Americans,” said Dyson.
If Black pastors tried to “take all the [gay people] out of the Black church, there wouldn’t be a Black church,” he added. “And I never heard of any pastors refusing tithes from gay people.”

Dyson joins numerous of Black pastors who have spoken out in support of the President’s freedom to marry stance.

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Read NBJC’s statement commending President Obama for his courageous leadership

Amendment One and An Angry Lament of a Native Son

Wednesday, May 9th, 2012

Amendment One and An Angry Lament of a Native SonI am a native son of the Deep South, born and bred in the land of cotton, Christianity and conservatism.

As a native son, I soaked up the homophobic culture in which I lived just as I soaked up a love of college football, the smell of fresh mown grass and cut wild onions on Sunday afternoons and July thunderstorms beheld on the back porch with iced cold sweet tea.

But I know now what I did not then. I know that I had friends who were gay, lesbian and bisexual, and I know that those friends overheard hate speech, cloaked in piety, fall from of my mouth as if it were righteousness. They heard me use the word “gay” as a pejorative. They heard me speak with confidence of how God condemned homosexuality. They heard me joke that God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. They heard from me what they heard from everyone else in the South and what they heard tonight in North Carolina.

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President Obama Voices his Support for Marriage Equality

Wednesday, May 9th, 2012

Amidst speculation of his evolution on the issue of marriage equality, President Obama, today spoke of its finality.

By Melanie Nathan, May 09, 20112.

Speaking Wednesday with ABC News’ Robin Roberts, President Barack Obama spoke about his evolution toward full marriage equality for same-sex American couples.

He said that he and his administration have long “stood on the side of broader equality for the LGBT community,” pointing to the repeal of the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy and the decision to stop defending the Defense of Marriage Act in court, among others.

President Obama’s evolution is explained from these quotes which appeared within hours of the interview in the Los Angeles Times Article:-

“I had hesitated on gay marriage in part because I thought that civil unions would be sufficient,” he said. “And I was sensitive to the fact that for a lot of people, the word ‘marriage’ was something that evokes very powerful traditions, religious beliefs, and so forth.”

That changed, Obama said, as he reflected more on the relationships of friends and staff and the feelings of gay members of the military who “feel constrained.”  “At a certain point, I’ve just concluded that for me personally, it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same-sex couples should be able to get married,” he concluded. In the interview, Obama also reflected on the rapid change in public opinion on the issue, particularly among younger generations.

“When I go to college campuses, sometimes I talk to college Republicans who think that I have terrible policies on the economy, on foreign policy, but are very clear that when it comes to same-sex equality or, you know, sexual orientation that they believe in equality,” he said.

Obama noted that his daughters have friends who have same-sex parents. “There have been times where Michelle and I have been sitting around the dinner table, and we’re talking about their friends and their parents, and Malia and Sasha, it wouldn’t dawn on them that somehow their friends’ parents would be treated differently. It doesn’t make sense to them and, frankly, that’s the kind of thing that prompts a change in perspective,” he said.

LGBT activists are commenting with pride and admiration for the President:

John Lewis, MEUSA Legal Director, said, “I am thrilled that the dream of marriage equality is now so much closer, thanks to the President’s decisive leadership. Marriage is about love and commitment, and the President looked at this decision with his heart — not as a political calculation — and decided to stand on the side of love. In standing on the side of love, he also decided to stand on the right side of history.”

Robin Tyler, national activist and the original lesbian plaintiff to sue in the successful case (Tyler v State of California) that brought marriage equality for same sex couples to California, celebrates President Obama’s decision to come out for marriage equality today.

 ”There is absolutely no question of who I will support in the coming Presidential elections. Mitt Romney donated through his Mormon Church, $10,000 to Yes of Proposition 8. Donations to discrimination are not ‘charitable.’ Mitt Romeny violated our civil rights. We need a President who supports all American’s and their families, including LGBT ones. Today, President Obama showed that he has the courage to come out publicly and support marriage for lesbian and gay couples. There is actually no such thing as ‘gay’ marriage. There is no ‘gay driver’s license’ or ‘gay birth certificate.’ It is just marriage for same-sex adult couples. Our President has finally evolved!

There was never a doubt in my mind that the President had evolved on the issue of same-sex marriage; since recently the President had said he would sign the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act , the legislation that bans same-sex couples who are legally married from participating in Federal civil law granted by marriage to heterosexual couples.  Now that the President has made it clear to all who could not read into this as indicative of his evolution, it could not be more clear that he actually does support gay marriage.

So well done to President Obama, the skeptics in the LGBTQI community can now focus on the re-election of a President who has actually already done more than any other to forward the interests of equality.

Politically, let us hope that those in the community who insisted Obama be overt in his stance now support him one hundred percent unconditionally in his bid for re-election, because you can be rest assured that FOX News, Santorum, Romney and Maggie Gallagher, to name but a few, will do everything in their power to make this the re-invigoration of the wedge issue many assumed may have dwindled.

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Melanie Nathan
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North Carolina Votes Against Equality

Tuesday, May 8th, 2012

By Melanie Nathan, May 08, 2012

Amendment One and The FactsThe  LGBT Community in the U.S.A. is deeply saddened by today’s vote in North Carolina against the right of same sex couples to marry or to enter into domestic partnerships or civil unions.

“This divisive initiative is blatantly unconstitutional. Not only does it deprive lesbian and gay North Carolinians of their fundamental freedom to marry, it attempts  to strip partners of lesbian and gay city employees in cities such as Durham and Asheville, of their health care benefits under the guise of limiting marriage rights. The United States Supreme Court has made clear that such targeting of lesbian and gay people to harm them violates the basic fairness guarantees of the United States Constitution,” said John Lewis, Marriage Equality USA’s Legal Director.

“It is a horrible feeling to have your life and your family put up for a popular vote. No one is better off by the initiative’s taking away health care benefits from lesbian and gay families. Lesbian and gay couples and their families are real human beings. This exclusionary initiative harms real people,” said Stuart Gaffney, Marriage Equality USA’s Media Director.

Pam Spaulding an LGBT Blogger from North Carolina notes

“What is the key issue here is that a battle about marriage and legal rights for unmarried couples is not what North Carolina needed, and was forced into it by craven lawmakers and bigots who wanted an easy political club — homophobia — as a GOTV tool. It shouldn’t have been on the ballot in the first place, but it was, prematurely leapfrogging an issue that the state was not ready to handle.

As I’ve told my marriage equality advocate friends many times, for those of us in states where we do not even have employment protections — you can be fired for being LGBT here, no questions asked — we won’t see same-sex marriage until the U.S. Supreme Court makes it happen.”

On a positive note Spaulding notes:

“The coalition-building here has afforded North Carolinians for the first time to discuss the rights of LGBT neighbors and friends. It has shown the country that yes, the South has politically active voters of strong faith that are against discrimination for all of the right reasons — it’s not a matter of religion at all, but about the separation of church and state and protecting and extending the rights of minorities, not restricting them.”

Jeremy Kennedy of Protect All NC Families notes:-

“Tonight’s results were disappointing, not just for gay and lesbian North Carolinians, but for the hundreds of thousands of non-traditional families who may face the harmful impact of Amendment One. Our campaign may have fallen short this evening, but your work over the past several months did not. Your efforts and dedications achieved many victories along the way, and demonstrated to North Carolina and to the entire country that discrimination and victimization will not achieve easy victories.”

According to MEUSA, The North Carolina vote stands in stark contrast to the clear trend in favor of marriage equality nationwide. All federal courts that have recently considered the issue have found that discriminating against lesbian and gay people in marriage violates the United States Constitution.

Last year, New York became the largest state in the nation to achieve the freedom to marry for all its citizens.

This year, Washington State and Maryland passed marriage equality laws through their legislatures, and the New Hampshire Legislature by a strong bipartisan vote rejected an attempt to roll back the freedom to marry in that state.

The freedom to marry will likely be up for a vote in four states this fall, and we are very hopeful that love and fairness will prevail in those states,” said Lewis.

 

Melanie Nathan
nathan@privatecourts.com

Caroline Kennedy Calls on Dem Party for Freedom to Marry Platform

Tuesday, May 8th, 2012

At a ceremony on Monday, Caroline Kennedy will present the 2012 John F. Kennedy Profile in Courage Award to three former Iowa supreme court justices voted out of their positions after they ruled in favor of same-sex marriage in 2009.

The daughter of former president John Kennedy, is urging Democrats to embrace marriage equality. Kennedy joined “Democrats: Say I Do,” a campaign from the group Freedom to Marry that advocates a marriage equality plank in this year’s Democratic party platform.

“There are few things in life more important than being able to marry and build a family with the person you love,” Kennedy said in a statement. “This fundamental right should be available to all Americans, including gay and lesbian couples. In our democracy we are fortunate to have elected officials at all levels of government, and courageous jurists who have put their careers on the line, to uphold the promise of equality that is as old as our Constitution, and I hope that many more will follow their example.”

READ MORE  at THE ADVOCATE

 

North Carolina may vote yes due to voters lack of understanding

Sunday, May 6th, 2012

Will gay marriage be stopped in North Carolina?

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 If the numbers hold up, anti-gay marriage advocates will continue their near perfect record when it comes to the voting booth.

On Tuesday, North Carolina citizens will have an opportunity to decide on Amendment One. If passed, the legislation will ban the state from recognizing civil unions, strip away domestic partner benefits and could eliminate legal protections for all unmarried couples.

As reported by Public Policy Polling, 55 percent intend to vote yes  next Tuesday (8 May). Only 41 percent are opposed.

The pollsters argue that one of the reasons why the numbers are so lopsided is because voters do not understand how far reaching the legislation is. More than half, 55 percent, of Tarheel voters support some type of  legal recognition of gay relationships — from civil unions to marriage.

‘When we informed poll respondents the amendment banned both gay marriage and civil unions and then asked how they would vote, only 38 percent continued to support it with 46 percent opposed,’ the polling organization wrote.

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Marriage Equality Events Today/Tomorrow: 5/2-5/3/12

Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012

Gay Marriage EventsIf you know of any other events – rallies, meetings, phonebanking, etc – please use the link below to add your event to our list! Note: this will be our last events posting for a few weeks, as we’ll be out of the country – in the meantime, check our events link below:

  • Canada, BC, Vancouver: May 8, NoH8 Photo Shoot, Renaissance Hotel, 5-8 PM. http://bit.ly/zQYqY1

  • USA, CA, Beverly Hills: May 7, LA Equal Roots Meeting, 8106 Santa Monica Blvd, 7:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/7fyyh8
  • USA, CA, San Diego: May 8, SAME Membership Meeting, 3620 30th Street, 6:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/os6kG
  • USA, CA, West Hollywood: May 8, Love Honor Cherish Meeting, Nat’l Council Of Jewish Women, 7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/bsQoA5
  • USA, DC, Washington: May 6, Same Love, Same Rights LGBT Wedding Expo, Renaissance Washington, DC, TBD. http://bit.ly/IZKt95
  • USA, DC, Washington: May 8, Gay & Lesbian Activists Alliance Meeting, Sumner School Museum, 7 PM. http://bit.ly/cXNBo9
  • USA, FL, Gainesville: May 5, Equality Florida Gala 2012, Florida Museum of Natural History, 7 PM. http://bit.ly/GDfF13
  • USA, IL, Chicago: May 4, Equality IL First Friday Networking Social, Sidetrack, 6-8 PM. http://bit.ly/gOlMG5
  • USA, IN, Lafayette: May 3, Citizens for Civil Rights Monthly Meeting, Pride Lafayette Comm Ctr, 7-8 PM. http://bit.ly/GHzQVd
  • USA, ME, Sanford: May 5, Faith Training for Marriage Equality, St. George’s Episcopal Church, 9 AM-12 PM. http://bit.ly/GYXmB9
  • USA, ME, Waterville: May 7, “8″ The Play Reading, Colby College, 7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/y7pyXa
  • USA, MN, Austin: May 4, “8″ The Play Reading, Riverland Theatre, 7 PM. http://bit.ly/xvicFE
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 2, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 3, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 4, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 6, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 6, Volunteer Recruitment Phone Bank, TakeAction MN, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 7, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 8, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, Education MN, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 8, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, NC, Greensboro: May 6, Rally Against Amendment One, Mt. Zion Baptist Church, 4:30 PM. http://bit.ly/Ik61Rq
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 2, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. mailto:cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 3, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. mailto:cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 3, Phonebanking to Defeat Amendment One, UUFR, 3313 Wade Ave, 6:30-9 PM. http://on.fb.me/wgeKnC
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 4, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. mailto:cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 7, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. mailto:cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 7, Phonebanking to Defeat Amendment One, UUFR, 3313 Wade Ave, 6:30-9 PM. http://on.fb.me/wgeKnC
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 8, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. mailto:cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NY, Albany: May 8, LGBT Equality & Justice Day 2012. http://bit.ly/gOtj75
  • USA, OR, Portland: May 4, NoH8 Photo Shoot, The Jupiter Hotel, 5-8 PM. http://bit.ly/zEcZII
  • USA, PA, Harrisburg: May 6, “8″ The Play Reading, Open Stage of Harrisburg, 7 PM. http://bit.ly/wS3F3O
  • USA, PA, Lancaster: May 2, “8″ The Play Reading, Franklin & Marshall College, 7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/IDWzDE
  • USA, PA, Philadelphia: May 3-May 6, Equality Forum 2012. http://bit.ly/emhzgY
  • USA, PA, Philadelphia: May 7, “8″ The Play Reading, The Wilma Theater, TBD. http://bit.ly/wkNu37
  • USA, RI, Providence: May 3, MERI Volunteer Nght, MERI HQ, 6-9 PM. http://bit.ly/HjxZ0u
  • USA, TN, Nashville: May 7, “8″ The Play Reading, Rhubarb Theater Company, 7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/zgq1Xu
  • USA, TX, Dallas: Mar 7-Mar 9, “8″ The Play Reading, Brookhaven College, 10:30 PM, 8 PM, 8 PM. http://bit.ly/IcvhEs
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 2, Phonebanking for Marriage Equality with WA United for Marriage, Civic | Space at 1402 3rd Ave, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 3, Phonebanking for Marriage Equality with Equal Rights Washington, Wash Bus HQ – 1100 E Union St, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 3, Volunteer Data Entry With WA United for Marriage, 10 AM-2 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 5, Seattle Canvass for Marriage Equality with WA United for Marriage, UFCW Local 21, 5030 1st Ave S #200, 10 AM-2 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 5, NoH8 Photo Shoot, Renaissance Hotel, 2-5 PM. http://bit.ly/y7a5xh
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 7, Phonebanking for Marriage Equality with WA United for Marriage, UFCW Local 21, 5030 1st Ave S #200, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 7, Volunteer Data Entry With WA United for Marriage, 10 AM-2 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 8, Phonebanking for Marriage Equality with WA United for Marriage, UFCW Local 21, 5030 1st Ave S #200, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5

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NC, USA: New Poll Shows Voter Views Unchanged on Amendment One

Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012

New York Gay Marriage Poll55% of survey respondents favor the ballot measure that would constitutionally ban marriage and other forms of relationship recognition for gay couples. 41% of respondents oppose the measure.

The latest numbers on North Carolina’s Amendment One shows that 55% of survey respondents favor the ballot measure that would constitutionally ban marriage and other forms of relationship recognition for gay couples, according to a poll released Tuesday afternoon by Public Policy Polling. 41% of respondents oppose the measure, only a 1-point increase over the last survey conducted in April.

A crucial caveat remains, however: When those surveyed were informed about the amendment’s broad authority to outlaw civil unions, only 38% supported it, compared to 46% opposed.

Full Story from The Advocate

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Marriage Equality Events Today/Tomorrow: 5/1-5/2/12

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

Gay Marriage EventsIf you know of any other events – rallies, meetings, phonebanking, etc – please use the link below to add your event to our list!

  • USA, CA, San Diego: May 1, SAME Membership Meeting, 3620 30th Street, 6:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/os6kG

  • USA, CA, San Francisco: May 2, One Struggle One Fight Meeting, 209 Golden Gate Ave, 7 PM. http://bit.ly/7HQ8D4
  • USA, IL, Freeport: Mar 2, “8″ The Play Reading, Winneshiek Players, 7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/Ih0yZ6
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 1, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, Education MN, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 1, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, MN, St. Paul: May 2, Phone Bank with Minnesotans United For All Families, 1821 University Ave West, 6:30-9:30 PM. http://bit.ly/H3sb9E
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 1, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NC, Raleigh: May 2, Phonebanking with Protect All NC Families to Defeat Amendment One, 3020 Highwoods Blvd, 5-8:30 PM. cstephans@acluofnc.org
  • USA, NY, New York: May 2, MENY General Meeting, LGBT Center, 6:30-7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/I9vIu
  • USA, NY, Saratoga Springs: May 1, “8″ The Play Reading, Skidmore College, 8 PM. http://bit.ly/HsHq9c
  • USA, PA, Lancaster: May 2, “8″ The Play Reading, Franklin & Marshall College, 7:30 PM. http://bit.ly/IDWzDE
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 1, Phonebanking for Marriage Equality with WA United for Marriage, UFCW Local 21, 5030 1st Ave S #200, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5
  • USA, WA, Seattle: May 2, Phonebanking for Marriage Equality with WA United for Marriage, Civic | Space at 1402 3rd Ave, 5:30-8:30 PM. http://bit.ly/t6TxA5

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