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HI: Is Civil Unions Religious Exemption in Trouble?

Monday, April 30th, 2012

Is Civil Unions Religious Exemption in Trouble in Hawaii?Conference Room 325 was packed with lawmakers, staff, citizens and others, many of them waiting to hear of the fate of HB 2569, the civil unions bill. They included on one end of the civil unions extreme the former Hawaii Associate Justice Steve Levinson and the Biker for Christ on the other.

The House this week proposed amendments to allow for what Judiciary Chair Gil Keith-Agaran called “narrow” exemptions for religious groups that don’t wish to have ceremonies performed in their facilities.

There is some doubt that the Senate will accept this, however, and Judiciary-Labor Chair Clayton Hee now has his own amendment in mind.

Full Story from the Honolulu Civil Beat

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HI, USA: Lawmakers to Add Religious Exemption to Civil Unions Law?

Thursday, April 26th, 2012

HI, USA: Lawmakers to Add Religious Exemption to Civil Unions Law?Hawaii lawmakers are considering a proposal to the state’s civil unions law to allow religious organizations to deny use of their facilities for a solemnization ceremony.

The proposed conference draft — known as a CD1 — for House Bill 2569 is intended to ensure that churches do not violate the state law on public accommodations that prohibits discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.

The new language, which is highlighted in the document posted at the end of this article, says the facilities must be those used only for religious purposes, restricted to members of the organization and not operated for commercial purposes.

Full Story from Civil Beat

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HI: Legislature Considers Religious Exemptions to Civil Unions Law

Wednesday, March 21st, 2012

Hawaii Civil UnionsThe Biker for Christ was among the last to testify, but what he had to tell two Senate committees Tuesday was among the most memorable testimony submitted on House Bill 2569 — a civil unions bill.

Civil unions has been Hawaii law since Jan. 1, but the Abercrombie administration said the law required technical fixes and clarifying language.

For example, HB 2569 would allow for automatic termination of a reciprocal beneficiary relationship when a couple enters into a civil union. But, on March 1, House Finance amended the bill to include language that expanded exemptions for religious groups from prohibitions against sexual-orientation discrimination in public accommodations.

Full Story from Civil Beat

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HI: Alliance Defense Fund Asks Judge for Standing to Defend Anti Marriage Equality Law

Wednesday, March 7th, 2012

Hawaii Marriage Equality LawsuitLast month Hawaii Gov. Neal Abercrombie announced that he would not defend the state against a lawsuit claiming that the existing civil unions law unconstitutionally deprives residents of the right to same-sex marriage.

Today the Alliance Defense Fund announced that they have petitioned for standing to intervene. Unless I’m reading the linked news item wrong, this may be the first time an anti-gay hate group has moved to defend an ostensibly pro-gay law.

Attorney Holly Carmichael explains the lawsuit was filed by three individuals attacking Hawaii’s civil unions law, arguing that it is not satisfactory.

Full Story from Joe.My.God

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HI: Governor Abercrombie Won’t Defend State’s Ban on Same Sex Weddings

Wednesday, February 22nd, 2012

Governor Abercrombie and Marriage Equality LawsuitHawaii Gov. Neil Abercrombie says that he agrees with and will not defend against a lawsuit calling his state’s ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional. Also being sued is the license-issuing Hawaii Department of Health, who will defend themselves.

“Under current law, a heterosexual couple can choose to enter into a marriage or a civil union. A same-sex couple, however, may only elect a civil union. My obligation as Governor is to support equality under law. This is inequality, and I will not defend it,” Abercrombie said.

[Health Department Director Loretta] Fuddy said it is her job to administer the law now on the books and that is what she must do. “The Department of Health is charged with implementing the law as passed by the Legislature.,” said Fuddy. “Absent any ruling to the contrary by competent judicial authority regarding constitutionality, the law will be enforced. Because I am being sued for administering the law, I will also defend it,” said Fuddy.

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Hawaii: It’s Time for Marriage Equality

Thursday, February 16th, 2012

Marriage Equality in HawaiiIt is hard to believe that almost two decades have passed since Hawaii’s 1993 Baehr v Lewin Supreme Court ruling launched the marriage equality movement. In that groundbreaking and first-of-its-kind ruling, the Hawaii Supreme Court affirmed that denying same-sex couples marriage licenses was a presumptive violation of the equal protection guarantees of the Hawaii Constitution and should be subject to strict scrutiny.

Fast forward to 2008 when the California Supreme Court declared California’s ban on marriage of same-sex couples to be unconstitutional. In the period subsequent to this ruling, approximately 18,000 same-sex couples legally married in California until the California Supreme Court ruling was overturned by California’s Proposition 8 on November 4, 2008. On February 7, 2012, in Perry v Brown, the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals upheld a lower court ruling that Proposition 8, the anti-gay measure that stripped gay and lesbian Californians of their right to marry, is unconstitutional.

If Baehr v Lewin was the shot heard round the world, Perry v Brown, according to Lambda Legal’s Jon Davidson, is “the ruling that foreshadows the ultimate fate of other states in the Ninth Circuit that refuse to recognize the equal dignity of same-sex couples and their families by shunting them off to second-class statuses like domestic partnerships or civil unions.”

Full Story from Hawaii Civil Beat

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Featured Gay Friendly Wedding Vendor: Gay Hawaii Ceremonies, Kaneohe, Oahu, Hawaii

Friday, February 10th, 2012

Periodically we’ll feature one of our vendors here to let our readers know about some great people who can help you plan the perfect wedding.

Gay Friendly Wedding Vendors in Oahu, Hawaii

Gay Hawaii Ceremonies, Kaneohe, OahuI am a non denominational minister who respects and serves all faiths.

If you’re planning a commitment ceremony here in Hawaii, there are many fabulous locations to choose from for your ceremony – Reverend Toni Baran will be glad to help you choose the perfect place.

One of her favorite locations to celebrate your love is at Sunset on one of our beautiful Oahu beach at sunset.

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Getting Married in Hawaii, Part 4: Photos Again? Taking it Up!

Thursday, February 2nd, 2012

Certainly on every Hawaiian wedding day there will be images of all the essential moments–the couple greeting one another, the declaration of vows, the exchange of rings, hands entwined atop a mound of flowers, the kiss (oh, the kiss!), the celebratory HUZZAH! at the presentation of the couple for the first time as husband and husband, wife and wife or as sacred partners in the journey of life by the officiant at the end of the ceremony. These images can be ho-hum or dazzling depending on the combination of skill and passion in the photographer. Yes, let’s opt for a passionate, skillful photographer!

Beyond the ceremony, there is no limit in the creativity of the photos that capture the magic of the day and tell a true love story. After the ceremony it’s time for fun! A photo shoot will be fun with a photographer who is playful her/himself and has the gift of allowing others to be themselves and let go a bit (or a lot). Being in Hawaii can allow the kid in each of us to come out and play, and a wedding photo shoot is the perfect time for that to happen.

I’ve never met a kid who didn’t like to play on the beach and in the water, too. A romantic and playful beach photo shoot can go as far as imagination can take it and even then more surprises almost always happen spontaneously. Drawing hearts in the sand, running down the beach, jumping, walking barefoot hand in hand along the shoreline, water lapping over your feet–all these are but a beginning of possibilities.

Climbing a tree at the edge of the beach, wading into the water, playing in the waves… The beach lends itself endlessly to play and, funnily enough, some scientists are actually saying play will save humanity. I say, “I want to be part of that!”

Waterfall weddings can give rise to even more playful antics. One bride said, “We’re never going to wear these dresses again. Let’s get in the waterfall.” The next thing we knew two brides were splashing each other, laughing and cavorting in the pool at the base of the fall, dresses hanging like wet flower petals. After another wedding one of the grooms just started taking his shirt off and the photographer kept shooting. Two grooms climbing the fall? That day photos captured the whole playful story.

Now here’s a new trend: A Trash the Dress (or Trash the Tux) photo shoot. Usually this shoot is scheduled the day after the wedding (but with no guests it could be a continuation of the wedding shoot as the unexpected waterfall shots were).

Hawaii has a wonderful element for Trash photos: the luscious red dirt that, with a little water, becomes beyond luscious to lascivious (!) red mud. It’s smooth and silky and makes a glorious Trash opportunity. Jumping in the ocean or rolling in the sand? Sure, these will give great Trash photos, but between you and me, it’s the red mud that finishes the job.

Another popular new trend is to have a photo booth at your Hawaii wedding reception so guests can pull you into the booth with them–or vice versa–and take some of those great candid shots that only seem to emerge when taken in a tiny space with curtains all around. Ah, the photo booth. I thought those days were gone but on Kauai, at least, it is easy to hire a photo booth for the evening from Photo Booth Kauai.

Sometimes timing doesn’t allow a couple to have all the photos they’d like on their wedding day. A couple of options can expand photo opportunities for an unforgettable Hawaiian wedding trip. A Couple’s Engagement Shoot can take place even the day before the wedding.

Time to unwind from the long trip over to Hawaii, time to nestle in together in casual clothes, time to savor the pre-wedding excitement and lavish one another with love–all with a photographer near at hand to make sure the time in exquisite Hawaii will be remembered for the rest of a couple’s lives…

Another option is the Honeymoon Memories Shoot which can take place a day or two after the wedding. Here, with the excitement of their wedding day behind them, a couple can really let go and relax into being married, settle into the arms of the beloved, begin to nurture the relationship of a lifetime with their new spouse.

Again, the sweetness of this place and this occasion–the union of two exquisite beings in this most voluptuous place, Hawaii–is gently held and presented by a photographer who celebrates their love alongside the couple. Another wonderful benefit of an Engagement Shoot or a Honeymoon Memories Shoot is that the couple can choose a different location from their wedding site. The wedding’s on the beach; the engagement or memories shoot is at the waterfall or one of the stunning tropical gardens on the island.

The most important thing about Hawaii wedding photos is that they capture the beautiful feeling of a couple in love in the glorious tropical paradise that Hawaii is. Whether you tend toward a more traditional life and want photos that reflect that or whether you want to go absolutely wild on your wedding trip and have images to show for it or if you fall somewhere in the middle, there are the perfect photographer and photo opportunities for you. Hawaii is an embracing environment and most people feel at home as soon as they step off the plane. Photos taken of folks who feel at home are the best. Enjoy the journey!

Virginia St. ClairVirginia St. Claire, lesbian owner of In Heaven Commitments, has a wonderful team of wedding professionals to help couples create and celebrate beautiful weddings and sacred unions on the islands of Kauai and Oahu. In Heaven Commitments offers full wedding services from the simplest of barefoot-in-the-sand beach weddings to elegant formal weddings and receptions. They provide everything a couple may need-ceremony, photography, videography, music, flowers, cake and champagne/cider, simple or full-service catering, plus all the extras like doves, a sand unity ceremony, hula, conch and chant, etc. Every wedding is celebrated in peace and with joy and love.

In honor of the new Civil Unions law which too effect January 1st 2012, In Heaven Commitments, which provides Civil Union and Commitment Celebrations on the islands of Kauai and Oahu, is offering a 10% discount for all Kauai services during the months of January and February, 2012 to our LGBT family. Visit our website at inheavencommitments.com; or contact Stacy Mallory at 808 639 3202.

Getting Married in Hawaii, Part 3: Wedding Photos Are the Memory Keepers

Monday, January 23rd, 2012

Hawaii Lesbian Wedding PhotosNo matter where a couple marries, wedding photos that capture the spirit of the couple, their unique individual qualities as well as what makes them a great couple are essential. That’s even more true in Hawaii where the pristine aqua waters, the tropical feel of the surroundings, and the softness of the air can be felt in the photos themselves when the right photographer is taking the photos.

Looking at traditional wedding photos over the years, I’ve often noticed that it’s the dress I see, the tux I see. I have to look closely to see the people inside the clothes. Yet photos are one of the most important elements of a wedding day precisely because they are the one thing that will last through the years and bring back the memories of the celebratory magic of that most special day.

Kauai Gay Wedding PhotosIt may be tempting to say “yes” to a family member or friend who says, “Oh, I’m a great photographer. Why pay someone to take your photographs? I’ll do it for free!” Or they may offer to do the photos for a reduced price. Yikes! That can be a big mistake as some couples have told us afterwards. Not only is it important to look closely at the galleries of professional photographers in Hawaii before selecting the person who will carry this essential element of your wedding day, it’s also important to choose a photographer who will allow you to be yourselves, to feel free to express your tenderness and your joy as you will.

Photojournalist Candace Freeland came to Hawaii and began doing wedding photography after a twenty-five year career working for newspapers, magazines, and news services. In her work for the past twelve years she has honored the “enduring legacy of sensitively crafted photographic images.”

Having worked with well over a thousand couples myself, I think most people would agree that the two most important things in a wedding are the depth, feeling and spirit of the ceremony itself and the photography. As Freeland says, “Everything else, as wonderful as it is, is a fine addition to the celebration, but please cover the ceremony and photography first because those are the things that will last a lifetime.”

Oahu Lesbian Wedding PhotosFreeland, herself, is gay and has a special affinity and feels especially happy when she finds she is going to photograph a wedding for ‘family’. She says, “I have an image in my mind. I know how important it is to me to do a fabulous job for my couples, to capture as many moments of magic as I can so they can relive the fun, the tenderness, the happiness, the beauty of their sacred union, of their loving commitment. For many people coming to Hawaii to celebrate their union may be a once-in-a-lifetime visit. To be able to document for couples madly in love with each other getting married on a gorgeous beach in the Hawaiian Islands on this one day they’ve chosen to declare their love for one another gives me a lot of joy and satisfaction.”

In photojournalism images are used to tell a story without words. The photographer must have the ability to act quickly when the scene before her or him is story-worthy. What more glorious story to tell than that of a Hawaiian wedding day!

Oahu gay Wedding PhotosA photographer must be able to capture the lovely tropical setting and the placement of the couple, celebrant and friends in the context of the beach, garden, waterfall or wherever the wedding is held. Photos during the ceremony include close-up shots of each partner speaking their vows and looking their beloved in the eye, the exchange of rings and the joy when the celebrant says, “You may now kiss one another.”

After the ceremony, Freeland takes the couple for a romantic photo shoot on the beach, around the garden or at the waterfall. Often couples will arrange for all three locations. (In Heaven Commitments, for example, offers a Kauai Wedding Excursion for Two with three locations for photos.) Freeland says, “We have a fun and playful time photographing family and friends and then we take a romp on the beach [or wherever] with lots of candid images of the the couple frolicking in paradise, happy, free, and full of love.” Pure magic!

What about the more traditional wedding shots? Freeland likes to do some lightly posed shots at times and also use her photojournalistic skills to “capture the action unscripted of playing on the beach, dancing, climbing the tree, whatever we can come up with that’s fun and feels natural and easy.”

Having the most gorgeous photos taken is, however, only the first step. How the images are presented is important, too. Freeland presents an online gallery of images on her Blue Pearl Images site where friends and family can order prints. She also provides the couple with full rights to their images and gives them a CD. She will craft a beautiful coffee table wedding album which will become, perhaps, the first heirloom for the new family.

Long ago someone said, “A picture is worth a thousand words,” and this is no less true today when everyone has a camera that will take thousands of photos in record time. Yet how wonderful to have each image be worth a thousand beautiful, exclamatory words. Choosing the right photographer can be another fun and easy part of a couple’s Hawaiian wedding plan. A little meandering around the web and voila! Images that dazzle and bring the glorious day back year after year not only to our eyes but to our hearts as well.

Virginia St. ClairVirginia St. Claire, lesbian owner of In Heaven Commitments, has a wonderful team of wedding professionals to help couples create and celebrate beautiful weddings and sacred unions on the islands of Kauai and Oahu. In Heaven Commitments offers full wedding services from the simplest of barefoot-in-the-sand beach weddings to elegant formal weddings and receptions. They provide everything a couple may need-ceremony, photography, videography, music, flowers, cake and champagne/cider, simple or full-service catering, plus all the extras like doves, a sand unity ceremony, hula, conch and chant, etc. Every wedding is celebrated in peace and with joy and love.

In honor of the new Civil Unions law which will take effect January 1st 2012, In Heaven Commitments, which provides Civil Union and Commitment Celebrations on the islands of Kauai and Oahu, is offering a 10% discount for all Kauai services during the months of January and February, 2012 to our LGBT family. Visit our website at inheavencommitments.com; or contact Stacy Mallory at 808 639 3202.

You can find Candace Freeland’s website here: http://www.bluepearlimages.com.

Featured Gay Friendly Wedding Vendor: In Heaven Commitment Ceremonies, Oahu and Kauai, Hawaii

Saturday, January 21st, 2012

Periodically we’ll feature one of our vendors here to let our readers know about some great people who can help you plan the perfect wedding.

Gay Friendly Wedding Vendors in Hawaii

In Heaven Commitment Ceremonies, Kauai and Oahu, HawaiiBeautiful Hawaii weddings, performed in lovely natural tropical settings on the island of Oahu, which can include romantic beach weddings, private waterfall weddings , tropical forest weddings, and lush garden weddings.

We also perform commitment ceremonies, provide general Hawaii wedding services (we have contacts for everything your wedding requires here on Oahu).

Now on Kauai too! We’re adding Kauai to our list of wonderful tropical wedding locations – celebrate your union on the beautiful Garden Isle!

Rainbow Package: Oahu/Kauai wedding celebration (romantic beach settings a specialty of ours), includes a ceremony lovingly celebrated by Virginia, traditional tuberose bridal leis or traditional open maile grooms’ leis, 1 hour of professional digital photography documenting your ceremony, your family and friends after the ceremony, and then during a romantic couples’ shoot–includes approximately 70-100 fully photoshopped images on CD plus an 8 x 10 custom enlargement of our favorite shot of the day, and a eepsake wedding certificate and a copy of your personal ceremony on lovely paper: $1,050.

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