The Last Marriage Equality Watch – April 30th

Written by scott on April 30th, 2016


“…I may yet live to see gay marriage become a reality in the United States in my lifetime. And wouldn’t that be something.”

Those were the words I wrote when we first started Marriage Equality Watch back in January 2008: before Prop 8, before President Obama was elected, before Mark and I were married, when it was still GLBT instead of LGBT… and far before marriage equality became a reality in all 50 states. Now that we have come full circle to the end of this amazing project, I thought it would be appropriate to share that column with you once again:

How far we have come in eight short years!

In the end, it wasn’t a President or a congress that brought us to the finish line. It was all of us together as a community that fought the hard battles, day in and day out, to get to the end. And Mark and I were lucky enough to witness it all.

We also want to thank our partner organization, Marriage Equality USA, which has long been supportive of our activism.

The battle for marriage equality in the US is all but over, but we recognize that the fight for LGBTIQA rights in general continues. And there are many countries around the world where we don’t have any rights at all. Some of the folks from MEUSA are going on to NEAT to fight for housing and employment rights:

While others are continuing the fight for marriage equality globally:

Marriage Equality is a new organization with the continuing mission of education regarding the importance of marriage and LGBT equality in the United States and around the world. For more information, you can reach Marriage Equality leaders John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, who were one of the plaintiff couples in the California case for marriage equality, at

Mark and I will continue to support queer-friendly wedding vendors through our directory.

And I am personally involved in another same sex marriage project – a new book coming out from Dreamspinner Press on the Marriage Equality Day, June 26th. Called “A More Perfect Union”, the anthology will feature four wedding stories, each one written by an established, married gay author – myself, B.G. Thomas, Michael Murphy and Jamie Fessenden. If you want to be notified when it’s available, please join my mailing list here:

I will also make an announcement to this list.

Mark and I wanted to thank all of you who fought for equality with us – it’s been an amazing journey. We will continue to maintain the blog on our site as a history of the struggle. If you are looking for an alternate daily LBTIQA news source, we suggest HRC’s AM Equality:

It has been an honor to chronicle this struggle for you for the last eight years. It was a great run, and we love you one and all.

–Scott & Mark, Together 24 Years, Married for 7

Here’s our daily round-up of the marriage equality / LGBT rights stories from all around the internet. If we missed anything, let us know. Enjoy!

POP CULTURE: Star of the X-Men movies franchise Shawn Ashmore has said he would play his Iceman character if he were gay. full story

BANGLADESH: The killing of two gay rights activists in the Bangladeshi capital has driven the country’s already secretive and small gay community underground, wondering if they can trust a government that considers their status to be criminal, rights groups said. full story

FAROE ISLANDS: Faroe Islands, a self-governing archipelago part of Denmark, has passed same-sex marriage. full story

ITALY: Two lesbian Italian women have won the right to adopt each other’s children in a legal first for the country. full story

USA: MoveOn has launched a #StandWithTarget petition to counter the petition authored earlier this week by the AFA. From the MoveOn petition: “I pledge to support Target and any other business that stands up for transgender rights and accommodates transgender people in their restroom use.” full story

USA: A list of religious schools in the US which receive public money but are exempt from LGBT discrimination laws has been published. full story

USA: A college applications system used by hundreds of institutions across the US is changing the way it deals with gender. full story

USA: At a Commonwealth Club of California town hall on Friday, John Kasich was confronted by 62-year-old Kelly Bryan, who asked the Ohio governor and presidential candidate whether he believes that people are born gay. full story

USA, CALIFORNIA: A Los Angeles county judge has ruled that gay sex stings carried out by Long Beach police are discriminatory and “indicative of animus toward homosexuals.” full story

USA, ILLINOIS: A transgender student at Williamsville High School in central Illinois who was born female but identifies as male will be able to use the men’s bathroom. full story

USA, MISSISSIPPI: The law is specifically intended to subjugate people who might be gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender. And if that isn’t bad enough, it doesn’t stop there. full story

USA, MISSISSIPPI/NORTH CAROLINA: The owners of the rights to West Side Story announced today that it would not issue licences in the two states for the musical to be performed. full story

USA, NORTH CAROLINA: AC Transit will boycott a national transportation conference set to take place next month in North Carolina due to the state’s enactment of an anti-LGBT law. full story

USA, SOUTH CAROLINA: A South Carolina school district has announced plans to adopt new policies on bathroom use after a transgender student was suspended for using the bathroom matching his gender identity. full story

USA, TENNESSEE: The Bonnaroo Music & Arts festival is denouncing anti-LGBT legislation recently signed into law by Tennessee Governor Bill Hallam. full story

USA, TEXAS: Tracy Murphree, the Republican candidate for Denton County sheriff who grabbed headlines late last week with a Facebook post implying he would use violence against transgender women in public restrooms, has cancelled a planned meeting with representatives of Equality Texas and Denton County couple who have a transgender child. full story


7 Comments so far ↓

  1. Ernesto says:

    Thank you for everything!! We are going to miss you a lot. One of the best sources for LGBT news especially same sex marriage. I followed you almost every single day for at least 4 years or so. All the best and THANK YOU thank you thank you.

  2. Bob Peacock says:

    Thank you both so much for all of the hard work that you have done with regard to Same-sex Marriage (Marriage Equality). We as Canadian litigants have been together for 48 years going into our 49th and have been legally married for 12 years. We know the struggles have not been without much hardship and anger and all the emotions that one can muster, but you held the course and made it happen. Now, unfortunately there are too many Legislators who want to turn the clock back in the USA and believe you me, there are some here in Canada that would like to do the same, but, we must prevail and continue to watch and fight the ignorance out there. You have the opportunity in the USA to VOTE in the right people to maintain OUR RIGHTS IN THIS WORLD. Please vote intelligently.
    Thank you once again, from you brothers across the Border in Canada.
    Bob and Lloyd Peacock
    Vancouver, B.C.

  3. Michael says:

    Thank you for all you have done. I’ve been reading your Updates for several years, as often as possible, almost daily. I know it’s been a lot of work, but the effort is truly appreciated. May God bless you both with love, happiness and success.

  4. scott says:

    That’s fantastic – congratulations! Go for 50!

  5. scott says:

    xoxo Makes us happy to hear it.

  6. scott says:

    Thanks, Michael. It’s posts like these that make us feel like it was all worthwhile. xoxo

  7. Russ says:

    Thanks boys, I cannot tell you how much I have looked forward to reading you each morning. You were part of my routine and feel like family…my husband (2011) and I have been together 40 years, and all I can say is that it gets easier and better as time goes by, or at least you can’t seem to remember the bad stuff.
    Best of luck to you, you will be missed!!!!

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